To you guys & gals .... it doesn't seem like much.
But what I got for xmas (besides some Bailey's, a health book, and a kiss from the missus) cannot be valuated any other way.
Almost every month this past year I've worked 60hr weeks - mostly 3/4wks / mth, up to even 2 mths (1 with 5 wks) and working 7.5/9wks. I have hardly anything to show for it. PS3 is cool; debt is significantly reduced!
But to me the following was MY gift. All that working hard - reduced debt and allowed for future possibilities to be in site. but most of all was having my KIDS get those expensive most wanted gifts (besides the filler us parents usually must resort too - not middle class just below) that they ACTUALLY wanted. TO see the smiles on their faces ... see that comfortable grin of elation. To hear that "Thank you Mommy & Daddy, you're the greatest!"; when it really meant "Thank you, I love you Sooo much"!
I've gone through 3 cellphones (2 new) this year. The BB Pearl I sold for the SAME amount as I bought it for, allowing me only to spend $100 for a new one. I don't have my mini music studio yet. I don't even own a Mac but have wanted one for YEARS! Something to the tune of 4-5 years now!
Not too long ago, my wife & I went through some hard times together - being seperated for some time - and we got back together. Although I always wonder if its forever, I'm glad to have her now for as long as it'll last! This past year in review ... it looks like it'll be a VERY VERY long time indeed. I love my kids (BOTH of them - 1 non-biological, the other is) I helped raised them. I'm not a perfect dad, far from it. I may bellow - a jerk I know but hardly now - and I don't beat them (despite what is usually accepted in my culture, and my past trials with my own parents). I strive to make THEIR lives better than mine was before adulthood. My kids are AWESOME! very few sibling rivalry - but I know they really LOVE each other.
So this holiday season remember what is MOST precious to you - not these worldly tangibles - but the ones you love and those that love you, help you, and genuinely care for you! Parents don't take for granted those times when you're about to 5second jump the street light and you're child (less than 10) reminds you its not time to cross - even though holding your hand. Sure you would've NOT been hit by a car ... but its a HUGE step to realize that your child IS listening to your teachings of safety - even if its seems to go in 1 ear and out the other, lol .
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Everyone!
PS ... now give me my iMac 20" and a MBP 15.4".