Except of course, being not a parent, not having to actually live through any of this stuff for real, you don't know a whole lot about monitoring kids online. You don't know about the research that says monitoring kids full time is ALSO detrimental to their mental health and development. You don't know the stress they suffer having less privacy from their parents that we used to. You don't know how difficult it is for them to understand things like puberty and sexual development when they can't even look up a Wikipedia page without a parent knowing about it.No, it's parenting. Just like it was at the advent of the radio, movies, television, video games...it's 2025, being a parent very obviously includes monitoring what your children do on their devices and online. Just because it's easier to socialize the burdens doesn't mean its the right thing to do.
Kids used to be able to go play in the woods, read books, talk about taboo stuff in a huddle at the bottom of the garden. Now their lives are online and their parents are supposed to 'parent' by watching it 24/7? That doesn't work either. That was never parenting. You could tell a kid not to watch the DVDs on the top shelf and that was that. The DVD shelf didn't have an algorithm pushing the movies on the kids.