I apologize for whatever harm my mormon comment made you non mormon feel.
EDIT: I just saw your "give evidence part" so let me give you a little.
http://www.younggayamerica.com/heartland3.shtml The article is about an interview with some gay men who have grown up in and under the control of the Mormon religion. Let me give you some quotes from some of the men..
KEVIN: Its crazy, man. Some people say Salt Lake is a bubble but I say its a steel box. I dont think the rest of the world has even the slightest comprehension of what goes on here in Utah, the religious control of life here. Im from New York and when I first moved here I was so jolted I compared it to 30s Nazi Germany because thats how strong I saw the churchs control here.
DAVID: To Mormons, family is everything. In order to get into the top level of heaven you have to have a family. You have to be married, and you have to take care of your family. Even if youre celibate, as long as you're gay you still dont reach the top level with God.
DAVID: In my family Im number 11, so you could sorta say we fit the one in ten statistic. But its been really hard for my family to understand. My cousin came out and was completely cut off. The hardest thing is that you not only lose the church but you lose your family sometimes.
JAKE: When you grow up Mormon the church is everything. Its your life, your friends, your activities, your family. When I came out I had to start a completely new life because the Mormons Id grown up with didnt want to relate to me anymore. They couldnt understand.
JAKE: I developed a very bitter and angry attitude. I began to hate the church because they made my mother stay up at night and cry because I couldnt get into the Celestial Kingdom (Mormon concept of heaven). She would call me at night, crying, saying, "I want you to go to heaven with us." I got so furious I started exploring other religions. I explored all the worlds major religions and began wondering if maybe I was agnostic or maybe even athiest. It wasnt until that point that I finally realized that in order to reconcile anything I had to find my univeral force within myself. Suddenly I found the inner power I never before realized I had.
WES: Im NOT Mormon and I just want to give a picture of how overbearing the Mormon religion can be on all aspects of life. When I was growing up non-LDS, I would have good friends in elementary school but as soon as their parents found out I wasnt LDS all of sudden I wouldnt see them again. The friends would all eventually say "sorry, you cant hang out with us because youre not LDS." I got so fed up with it over time. I only had a few friends that actually stuck around. Thats even before I came out as gay. Once I came out, I was pushed away even more. (I'm not gay but that sums up my life in a little town in Colorado. Where everyone was mormon or trying to be.)
Shall I go on? But honestly I don't want to, and will not respond to any badgering you give. I don't want to keep this thread OT and out of control any more than I already have.