Let's deal with this point by point...
First of all they charged me double for exactly the same hardware, made in exactly the same country (China) as what other manufactures would do.
Apple has always been more expensive than their competitors, so you can't really accuse them of tarnishing their reputation by doing this now.
Then they gave me only 1 year guaranty on it while all other manufactures (at least here in Europe) are giving me 3 years instead.
Once again, Apple has given only a 1 year warranty for a long, long time.
Then equipment started to fall apart as soon as it got out of guaranty brackets (my MBP power adaptor failed after 14 months - had to buy new one, my MBP so called SuperDrive doesn't read disks anymore, my MBP logic board died, admittedly due to NVidia issue but still - and my 20" Cinema Display is dead after only 15 months of use)
Either you have really bad luck, or you don't take care of your products, because I've had quite a lot of Apple products and fewer problems than that. I did, interestingly enough have a logic board fail on an out of warranty Mac Pro a few months ago. When I took it in to my local Apple Store, they said it would be approximately a $1000 repair, and when I went back to pick it up, they told me I didn't have to pay.
Then they lock me into their crap iDevice eco system literally forcing me to JAIL BREAK out of it (what a appropriate name for it!)
Okay, there might be something to this, but it's not all that different from what their competitors are doing. Besides, you yourself just acknowledged that you can circumvent their ecosystem, and it's not like it's even hard for the customer to do.
Then they limit my experience by not allowing Flash and therefore full internet experience...
There is no mystery here, if you bought the product, you knew in advance that it didn't support Flash. Apple hasn't even tried to keep this under wraps. Maybe they're being "unfriendly" to potential customers by not adding Flash, but as far as their actual customers are concerned, it's not like they promised Flash would be patched in and didn't deliver.
Then they lie into my face with some crap "open letters" that kid of 10 could see through and rip apart (yes, I am referring to recent SJ letter)...
What makes you so sure they're lying exactly?
Then they impose recent draconian licence agreement rules...
Pretty much everything that has come under fire related to Apple's license agreement affects developers a lot more than customers. There are some unreasonable seeming things that relate to customers, but I can't think of any cases of those being enforced.
Then they stage open attack on freedom of press by Raiding Gizmo office and taking their computers...
This isn't unfriendliness to customers, which is the main point. Additionally, however, while you or I may or may not agree with specifics of the law or Apple's decision to have it enforced, there certainly are laws that prevent purchasing stolen merchandise, and also laws protect trade secrets. Unless you have a law degree, I don't think you're really in a position to sort this one out.
Being unfriendly to customers!?!?!
Precisely, how are they being any more unfriendly to customers than they ever have been? They still have industry leading customer service, according to consumer studies, by the way.
This isn't to say Apple has been behaving perfectly, it's just not really the
customers they have been mistreating.