Ugh. My life sucks so much!

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  1. iParis macrumors 68040

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    So I have been dating this girl for over five weeks then for some reason I notice her start to drifting away from me. Then it turns out what I was sensing was correct. Two days ago she left me for some guy she met at Warped Tour, and went to Warped Tour together! Ugh. Her reason for choosing him over me is that I apparently bug her and don't make her happy. I know I should be over it now but so many things keep reminding me and bringing me down. Going through her myspace bulletins and facebook statuses I can tell she is way more happy than me and is having a blast with her new boyfriend. I'm effing miserable while she's out slutting around.:(

    Bleh. Sorry if I am just sounding like a little b*tch right now. I just need motivation, and a reason for living. And something to look forward to. :eek:

    EDIT: Oh, and on top of this I just found out that two of the members of Panic at the Disco will be leaving the band!
     
  2. MacDawg macrumors P6

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    Not what you want to hear, but it is teen angst
    We all went through it ;)

    Some of us are old, and we are still going though it :eek:

    Woof, Woof - Dawg [​IMG]
     
  3. Unspoken Demise macrumors 68040

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    The new iPhone comes out in 2010. And it vaporizes manipulated backstabbing girls. :) Thats something to look forward to. :)

    In all seriousness, life is better than you think. At least you got away from her now instead of later.

    I was with a girl for 5 months. She broke up with me on my graduation day. She gave me little to no reason. Found out a few months ago she cheated on me with 4 guys. Had sex with 3 of them, hooked up with 1.

    OH, AND I LOST MY VIRGINITY TO THIS GIRL

    Wanna compare scars?
     
  4. Eidorian macrumors Penryn

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    Sign me up.
     
  5. iParis thread starter macrumors 68040

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    Oh sh*t. That does suck. Well, I'm pretty sure she cheated on me with this guy after Warped Tour. And there is no chance she would have had sex with anybody, she's still a virgin and whatnot.

    Grr... well, none of my friends liked her anyways and all pretty much hated being around her.
     
  6. gibbz macrumors 68030

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    I know it sucks, but you are 16. Life will go on and you will find someone. Oftentimes, opportunities will present themselves while you are not actively seeking them out. Be patient and enjoy your teen years.
     
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  8. Unspoken Demise macrumors 68040

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    OH, AND I LOST MY VIRGINITY TO THIS GIRL

    You are so much better off without her. Life goes on. Shortly after that girl and I broke up, a good friend of mine was online on myspace. We hadnt talked in a while, but it was great catching up with her. She helped me through the break up and we started hanging out. She went through a break up and I was there for her.

    Fast forward 13 months later, and she and I have been together for 11 months yesterday.

    S*** happens, but at the end of the tunnel is a light. And now I've found the greatest girl in the world.

    Im glad she broke up with me. It helped me see who Iwas really meant to be with.
     
  9. mscriv macrumors 601

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    Get off her FB and Myspace pages and stop checking up on her! Delete her as a friend and never look back. You've got to make a clean cut and move on. I'm not saying this is easy, but don't prolong the pain by peeking into her life on social networking sites. Break ups are like band-aids, don't pull it off slow and make it worse, just rip that sucker and get it over with!
     
  10. Antares macrumors 68000

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    Ditto. Do this OP! Delete, delete, delete! You'l be better off that way.
     
  11. eawmp1 macrumors 601

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    Then forget her...hang with your friends. At your age girls come and go. Friendship can last forever. Ask them what they didn't like about her. They might give you some perspective that can help in future relationships.
     
  12. ecstasy macrumors 6502

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    I experienced something like this when I was 14.

    You'll get over it. It's best if sooner than later.
     
  13. Capt Crunch macrumors 6502

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    If you treated her right and she was too stupid to realize it, why would you want to be with her? Think about it.



    By treating her right I don't mean putting her on a pedestal.
     
  14. iParis thread starter macrumors 68040

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    But, she apparently still wants to stay friends.

    Eh. Hopefully something like that will happen.

    Apparently it's because she is really mean and controlling.
     
  15. Unspoken Demise macrumors 68040

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    You better be kidding. Or the Emo word is going to showing up very VERY quickly.
     
  16. thegoldenmackid macrumors 604

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    No, you really don't.
     
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    eeek. She wants to stay "friends" because she's trying to soothe her own conscience about cheating on you. It won't be easy but I will echo everyone else's advice and say to forget her and move on. You will be much happier in the long run.
     
  19. GoCubsGo macrumors Nehalem

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    5 weeks and all this?

    You're 16, there are going to be tons more girls and tons more heartbreaks. In the end you'll think you will die without the last until you find the next.

    No girl is worth dying over ... and vice versa.
     
  20. iParis thread starter macrumors 68040

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    Problem? And no, I'm not kidding. They can't run a band with the two remaining members!
     
  21. Unspoken Demise macrumors 68040

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    Were they ever really a band to begin with?

    FACT. Do this. We'll see how quick she goes from "wanting to still be friends" to "OMG I want you back SOOOO hard."
     
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    Meh Don't worry about it. People who hang out on myspace and go to Warped Tour bug and don't make me happy either.


    Is this post serious?
     
  24. bartelby macrumors Core

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    See, you're already looking on the brighter side of things... :)
     
  25. Unspoken Demise macrumors 68040

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    I lol'd. I lol'd very very hard. So loud the people in the hallway heard me. :eek:
     

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