So I have been dating this girl for over five weeks then for some reason I notice her start to drifting away from me. Then it turns out what I was sensing was correct. Two days ago she left me for some guy she met at Warped Tour, and went to Warped Tour together! Ugh. Her reason for choosing him over me is that I apparently bug her and don't make her happy. I know I should be over it now but so many things keep reminding me and bringing me down. Going through her myspace bulletins and facebook statuses I can tell she is way more happy than me and is having a blast with her new boyfriend. I'm effing miserable while she's out slutting around.
Bleh. Sorry if I am just sounding like a little b*tch right now. I just need motivation, and a reason for living. And something to look forward to.
EDIT: Oh, and on top of this I just found out that two of the members of Panic at the Disco will be leaving the band!
iParis, I can empathise with you totally about all of that.
I went through pretty much the same thing barely 2 weeks ago. My partner of two years left me because he 'found someone new that he likes more'. Well, he tried to blame an argument we had a few days before, but that didnt make sense considering we were getting along well when it happened...but I explain this better below - personally I've always thought of him as the kind of person that gets bored easily, in a few months when the 'honeymoon period' is over he'll just move onto someone else. The thing with me and my partner, though, is we actually had plans. We were supposed to go overseas together next year, we were about to finally move in together, I genuinely loved him... on top of this, I was, last week, diagnosed with depression and anxiety disorder and, additionally, have a still undiagnosed lung problem where I'm permanently short of breath (all the 'normal' things, asthma, etc, have been ruled out), so that just made me feel worse...(quite honestly I think all of it's been caused by the breakup, but yeah...) And then barely a few days ago I find out they're already planning to do stuff together, and it just "happens" to be the exact same stuff we'd been planning when we were together - now they're going on all the trips that I helped plan, it just makes me feel used. And you know what he keeps saying? "I just want you to be happy for us

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He was a liar and a manipulative bastard, when I look back now. I hope this new guy smartens up and gets out while he can. For example, one day I noticed he suddenly 'deleted' his Facebook. He said he didn't want it anymore. A few days after he dumped me I noticed he suddenly had another account, so I readded him. Well, he sure as hell didn't delete me, he blocked me - why he did that, when we still had well over 2 months left in our relationship, I have no idea. But the main thing I noticed...he just happened to add the guy he's with now the day before he dumped me. So basically he planned the whole thing and decided to use a totally irrelevant disagreement as a way of getting out of it *rolleyes*
Basically reading through your post was as if I was reading one of my own, your situation seems almost identical to mine.
And Im equally saddened about Panic. The only 'new' band I've really listened to
If you ever wanna chat feel free to PM me or talk on AIM or something (even though Im barely ever on

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