Its definitely an issue for me.
My 11 Pro Max is 226g and it’s just too heavy. Notice it all the time but especially with one hand as my little finger always ends up supporting the base. Becomes annoying. A constant reminder that I should have got the Pro instead of the Max which is only 188g for the 11 Pro and about the same for the 12 Pro.
So a real disappointment that the regular pro 13 is now 203g
and the pro max even heavier at 238g
at least the regular 13 is still under 170g (but without the features I want!)
I have pre-ordered a 13 Pro and just hope I don’t regret the weight gain over the 11 Pro.