I just put 8gigs from OWC in my early 2009. Fired it up and it never booted; graphics card just whirred and whirred. Any thoughts on what the problem is? I got it with the base 6gigs in 123 and 567 and put the 4gs in 4&8. Cool to know the cpu's can be upgraded. Might try that in a year or two.
Update: I did the ctrl+opt+p+r on startup and got me no further. If it was some slightly different combo, don't worry, I tried it too.
You can't just mix any type of RAM in to the machine, first rule of thumb is that 1-4GB modules cannot work with 8GB and 16GB modules. As such, if you have a single 1GB module in there.. the system would not boot.
So make sure your 8GB modules go in without any other modules and test..
next is the speed, while many modules will be capable of switching back to lower speeds, the 2009 model will only support the lowest speed of 1066Mhz, and 1333Mhz ONLY if flashed to 5.1 AND the CPU supports the new 1333Mhz standard. Since you did not upgrade, your memory is stuck at 1066Mhz.
Check the memory speed you have purchased, and perhaps the 5.1 upgrade will make the memory work (with lower speeds).
Then you have RDIMM and UDIMM modules, again, they cannot be mixed.. if you have the 5.1 upgrade, rumors are UDIMMS are also supported.. but always one type in the machine.. mixing not supported.
@everyone else.. correct me if i'm wrong