I'm a girl so it works for me. I do agree the white bezel and gold is more feminine.But i'm sure there are men who like the color combo too.
I'm a manly-man and I think gold and white can be masculine too.
But the so-called "gold" for all iDevices isn't really gold, it's more of a Champagne-pinkish-yellow, so what's being sold and delivered really IS more feminine.
It's too bad that neither Real Gold (hence my capitalization of the words) and white, or Real Gold and Black aren't available. I'd seriously consider either one...