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efoto

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Nov 16, 2004
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Mac_Freak said:
Damn you people, you make me look bad. :mad:
Am I the only person here who is 21 and still a virgin? :confused: :(
I think the song by Coldplay "Beautiful World" would be right for such a moment. It is a little short, so it will have to play in loop though.

Actually we all make you look good, you should be thanking all of us ;) Show some chick this thread, that will surely impress :rolleyes:
In all seriousness, I only did because it was a lengthy dedicated relationship, not a one-night thing otherwise I never would have. I think regardless of your age, being a virgin is a very honorable thing. Pretty soon you will be vintage since there are fewer and fewer virgins around, and everyone knows ladies loooove vintage, so chin up.
 

ColoJohnBoy

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Mar 10, 2003
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Uhhh, does porno count as music? There wasn't exactly a soundtrack that I could remember, but I do remember that there was something about a teacher, and a student in detention, and spanking.... IN THE PORNO, I MEAN! ;)
 

Grey Beard

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Sep 10, 2005
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The Antipodes.
I remember !

ColoJohnBoy said:
Uhhh, does porno count as music? There wasn't exactly a soundtrack that I could remember, but I do remember that there was something about a teacher, and a student in detention, and spanking.... IN THE PORNO, I MEAN! ;)
I remember that flic too, but I don't think I was there, uhm or was I ?
Grey Beard
 

AmericanIdiot12

macrumors regular
Mac_Freak said:
Damn you people, you make me look bad. :mad:
Am I the only person here who is 21 and still a virgin? :confused: :(
I think the song by Coldplay "Beautiful World" would be right for such a moment. It is a little short, so it will have to play in loop though.

dont worry you still have 19 more years till youre a bigger loser than steve carell lol
 

TheMonarch

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May 6, 2005
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Mac_Freak said:
Damn you people, you make me look bad. :mad:
Am I the only person here who is 21 and still a virgin? :confused: :(
I think the song by Coldplay "Beautiful World" would be right for such a moment. It is a little short, so it will have to play in loop though.


I searched "Beautiful World" and none were by ColdPlay... Oh, and I haven't lost it yet.
I'm not 21 though... Still 18
 

admanimal

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Apr 22, 2005
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blaskillet4 said:
I searched "Beautiful World" and none were by ColdPlay... Oh, and I haven't lost it yet.
I'm not 21 though... Still 18

The song is called Don't Panic. Coincidentally a good piece of advice if you are about to lose your virginity.
 

revenuee

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Sep 13, 2003
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efoto said:
Actually we all make you look good, you should be thanking all of us ;) Show some chick this thread, that will surely impress :rolleyes:
In all seriousness, I only did because it was a lengthy dedicated relationship, not a one-night thing otherwise I never would have. I think regardless of your age, being a virgin is a very honorable thing. Pretty soon you will be vintage since there are fewer and fewer virgins around, and everyone knows ladies loooove vintage, so chin up.

no music --- i lost mine and it was a one night stand after the bar while on vacation in mexico with another tourist, i was 16 , i have yet to have sex while IN a relationship.

being a virgin only sounds good in theory, in practice i prefer my way ;)

people are to uptight about sex, they make it into some big deal, it's not, it's natural and it's fun, be smart, be safe and be playful.
also i'm seeing the wrong attitude, it seems that the mentality is that you NEED to IMPRESS women, you DON'T - if you get into the mind set that they need to impress you, you will be a lot more successful (there is a little more to it, but that's the idea)

are far as being a virgin and it being appealing to a woman, that really depends on the reason behind WHY you are a virgin. IF you are a virgin by choice because you believe it is should be done in a committed relationship, even marriage, that's great and you will probably get a lot of girls AHHHing over you--- BUT if you are a virgin simply because you've tried and failed, women WILL sense it and avoid you like a plague, if you tried and failed the problem is something in you're doing wrong, NOT THEM.

women like sex
most just as much as men, and they want to have sex,
when a women goes out with you, she has already thought about whether or not she WILL or WILL not have sex with you.

the difference is a women doesn't want to feel like she's a slut if she sleeps with you, SO, she has developed an anti-wussy protective slut radar ---

IF you go in and make it clear that sex is cool, and you like to have fun with it, and that you don't really care eitherway, that doesn't make a girl feel like a slut, it makes her comfortable with the idea that she is just having fun and that she is not going to regret it in the morning. or later that afternoon, depends on where you meet her.

NOW, if you have the mentality that you just want to have sex and don't care about her, she will sense it, and she will feel like she is being used -- and avoid you like a plague
 

Chundles

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Jul 4, 2005
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There may or may not have been music, she may or may not have been moaning, I was using Billy Connolly's trick just to try and last for any sort of reasonable length of time so all I could hear was my brain going...

TWO NINES ARE EIGHTEEN!!
THREE NINES ARE TWENTY SEVEN!!
FOUR NINES ARE THIRTY SIX!!
etc.


Can't recall how far I got into the times tables but it worked for the first time - haven't needed it since.
 

Deepdale

macrumors 68000
May 4, 2005
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New York
Chundles said:
TWO NINES ARE EIGHTEEN!!
THREE NINES ARE TWENTY SEVEN!!
FOUR NINES ARE THIRTY SIX!!
etc.

Can't recall how far I got into the times tables but it worked for the first time - haven't needed it since.

I like how you captured the mix of emotions -- anxiety, anticipation and concerns about a minimum level of staying power, while still summoning up all the early math skills from elementary school. The teacher who taught multiplication would be beaming with pride. :)

Once those math skills are etched into the brain, we are good to go.

Just practicing ... five nines are forty-five.
 

rockthecasbah

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Apr 12, 2005
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Moorestown, NJ
wPod said:
highschool is the perfect time, especially come sr year. . . man, the girls just want to give it away so they arent vergins when they go off to college!!!

so anyway, when i was back in high school losing my virginity i recall the house was completely silent and i was straining hard to listen for signs of parents comming home!!!! lol, good times good times.

i dont know what song was playing when my current gf lost hers (with me obviously) but i do know what playlist was on in iTunes. . . .my "make-out" list. the best playlist i have!!!! i highly recomend all you big V guys out there make such a playlist. . . then let girls chose the playlist from your iPod or computer and when they chose the make-out list. . . you know youre in for a good night!!!

. . . and what is all this one song stuff. . . i mean a song is only like 5 min long. . . oh heh, yeah, wait, im suddenly remebering back to my first time! . . . just tell the girl you need more practice, if youve found the right girl this should work well and youll get out of your 5 min stage! and onto the full playlist stage!!!!
well man thanks but im a sophmore right now so i still have some time for that ;)
 

efoto

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Nov 16, 2004
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revenuee said:
people are to uptight about sex, they make it into some big deal, it's not, it's natural and it's fun, be smart, be safe and be playful.
also i'm seeing the wrong attitude, it seems that the mentality is that you NEED to IMPRESS women, you DON'T - if you get into the mind set that they need to impress you, you will be a lot more successful (there is a little more to it, but that's the idea)<snip>

While I agree that many people are to uptight about sex, I also think that some people are to public about it. There is a difference between open and boasting, a fine line in some cases, blatantly clear in others.

I think once you say I don't need to impress women, they need to impress me you are getting a little over-confident and if a woman were to hear you say that they would think you quite arrogant. Relationships should be two sided and you should both care about the other person, not sit back and expect them to impress you.
 

Deepdale

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May 4, 2005
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New York
eva01 said:
I am 20 and haven't lost mine so yep 4 of us now.

I suspect there are quite a few more, but candor can be hard to come by with respect to such topics plus other reservations keep some from posting. You are very young at 20 and it's quite refreshing to hear from those who have not abandoned principles despite what can be intense pressure surrounding them. Good for you!
 
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