efoto said:
Actually we all make you look good, you should be thanking all of us
Show some chick this thread, that will surely impress
In all seriousness, I only did because it was a lengthy dedicated relationship, not a one-night thing otherwise I never would have. I think regardless of your age, being a virgin is a very honorable thing. Pretty soon you will be vintage since there are fewer and fewer virgins around, and everyone knows ladies loooove vintage, so chin up.
no music --- i lost mine and it was a one night stand after the bar while on vacation in mexico with another tourist, i was 16 , i have yet to have sex while IN a relationship.
being a virgin only sounds good in theory, in practice i prefer my way
people are to uptight about sex, they make it into some big deal, it's not, it's natural and it's fun, be smart, be safe and be playful.
also i'm seeing the wrong attitude, it seems that the mentality is that you NEED to IMPRESS women, you DON'T - if you get into the mind set that they need to impress you, you will be a lot more successful (there is a little more to it, but that's the idea)
are far as being a virgin and it being appealing to a woman, that really depends on the reason behind WHY you are a virgin. IF you are a virgin by choice because you believe it is should be done in a committed relationship, even marriage, that's great and you will probably get a lot of girls AHHHing over you--- BUT if you are a virgin simply because you've tried and failed, women WILL sense it and avoid you like a plague, if you tried and failed the problem is something in you're doing wrong, NOT THEM.
women like sex
most just as much as men, and they want to have sex,
when a women goes out with you, she has already thought about whether or not she WILL or WILL not have sex with you.
the difference is a women doesn't want to feel like she's a slut if she sleeps with you, SO, she has developed an anti-wussy protective slut radar ---
IF you go in and make it clear that sex is cool, and you like to have fun with it, and that you don't really care eitherway, that doesn't make a girl feel like a slut, it makes her comfortable with the idea that she is just having fun and that she is not going to regret it in the morning. or later that afternoon, depends on where you meet her.
NOW, if you have the mentality that you just want to have sex and don't care about her, she will sense it, and she will feel like she is being used -- and avoid you like a plague