Good grief man, throw your
"man purse" into the bin! If it doesn't fit into your pockets, then you probably don't need to carry it.
I'd argue the other way around.
I think every modern man should have a murse, even if you only use it occasionally. I use mine once a month, or if I go out somewhere during the day, or with friends when I know I'm not going to a club or bar (pubs are Ok). Normally I bring my laptop bag or backpack with me to uni, so I don't need a murse. Wallet in right pocket, keys and mobile in the left.
However, if you don't even
have one, you're really not keeping up with the times. Maybe you could have gotten away with keeping everything in your pockets in the 1980s.
In the
1980s: wallet, keys, and maybe sunglasses/glasses. But usually, just wallet and keys.
In
2008: Wallet, keys, and a mobile phone. That's what I normally carry, and the absolute minimum.
What if you need to bring 2 extra items? Want to bring sunblock, iPod, water bottle, small notebook/moleskine, book, map, Nintendo DS, digital camera, and when required, a small umbrella with you?
I should mention that I don't even own a Nintendo DS, but I do carry some of the other things when I think I may need them. Without a bag, it's impossible unless you're always travelling around with a girl who has her purse handy.
Or I guess you can stuff your pant pockets, but the crazy bulges in your pants make you look weird/bad, particularly when passing daycares and children's hospitals.
Here's what I've come up with so far:
- multitool (of course). Swiss Army knife or Leatherman style. Or both. Probably both.
- duct tape (small sized roll)
- small roll of electrical tape, too
- zip ties
- travel sewing kit
- dental floss (not for my teeth, but it's an amazingly handy way to pack pretty strong string - I've sawed through 1/4 plastic with floss before. Don't ask.)
- Small flashlight
- AA and AAA batteries
- USB Dock cable
- standard mini-USB cable
- USB to AC charger
- Spare cellphone charger (I can save space here using the USB cable for my Palm and the above USB to AC adaptor)
- blank DVD/CDs
- USB flash drive (actually I'll be super efficient here and pack a 2gb microSD card in a tiny USB adaptor, and my microSD to SD adaptor... I'll be able to plug the card into any PC, my/most digital cameras, and my/most cellphones, too)
- Digital camera (about to get a Nikon D40, but it's pretty small, so it'll should still fit even with a smallish case/wrap around it)
- Cellphone/iPod (though those are usually in my pockets)
- ziplock bag with: travel toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, hand sanitizer, "wet wipes", and some extra, empty, ziplocks
- .5L bottle of water (if it gets too full this will be the first to go. Water is heavy/dense, but I'll keep an empty bottle for refilling when thirsty)
- couple of energy/granola/candy bars
- gum/mints
That's nuts. I can understand that murses are occasionally useful, but you don't need all that stuff with you all the time. Why not just throw those things into a drawer somewhere, and when you're in a situation where you need a sewing kit (for example), bring it with you. Yes, it's useful on vacation, but how often are you on vacation?