The European elections (voting to elect members of the European Parliament) are taking place across EU states this week-end; the UK voted yesterday (Thursday), Ireland voted today (Friday), but most countries will vote either tomorrow (Saturday) or Sunday, and the votes cannot be counted before the polls close on Sunday night.
I have long been interested in politics - and, growing up, we were a household that was passionate about books, history, politics, culture, theatre, movies, music and yes - sport. (Though not everyone was equally passionate about any or all of these things).
We discussed and debated politics at the dinner table - my parents encouraged debate and discussion, and expected us to want to inform ourselves about current affairs, economics, geography, politics, history and so on.
Citizenship and the right to exercise the franchise - and the very fact of having the franchise - was taken very seriously by my parents, my mother, above all, being quite fierce in her enjoyment of exercising her right to have a say in who governed her, mindful that for most of history, most men and nearly all women had little to no say in choosing who governed them.
As some know on these threads, I studied and then taught politics, (and history), and, more recently, I have worked abroad a lot for international organisations (such as the EU) and have also worked for the past twenty years as an international election observer across three continents.
After my dad died, 14 years ago, whenever there was an election, (or referendum), my mum and I would stroll (or drive) to the polling station together, a kind of communal and family thing, which we both enjoyed immensely, and were both very mindful of the fact that a century earlier, neither of us would have had the right to vote. That continued until her dementia kicked in, almost a decade ago.
Now, she hadn't voted in almost a decade, and adjusting to that loss - the fact that we no longer chatted about, or argued over, politics, or went to the polling staton together, was - for me - a part of the "long slow goodbye" that is brought about by dementia, a goodbye to the intellectually engaged, enthusiastically informed, and fiercely intelligent woman that my mother was.
But this year, she is still on the voters' register, although she passed away just before Christmas, and her voting card, her polling card, was delivered to the house, along with mine, not so long ago.
Funny the things that get to you; in any case, I doubt that many (or any) more polling cards will arrive for her, as the voters' register will be updated, and this is probably the last. However, I shall keep it, and I think that I shall use this card as a book-mark, perhaps have something made from leather with which to keep it. And remember her by.