@kazmac I sure hope things settle down for you. As
@Scepticalscribe says, there are times when we become parents to our elders and the transition isn't easy for anyone.
While I was looking in on an old friend while waiting for his daughter to line up assisted living for him, his decline began to accelerate in some ways, even though he remained good at beating the tar out of me at Scrabble games. I remember being startled sometimes by his calling me "Justine" as I went about stuff like putting his groceries away or whatever. At first I thought he just misspoke, the way my grandma might have called one of my brothers by another's name when going about her chores and having the boys underfoot. But then I realized on occasion that my friend actually thought he was addressing his daughter when he spoke to me. I just went along with it, what could I do. I was grateful the daughter found a great place in not too much time. It was alarming meanwhile to see the trouble he could get into left to his own devices and was quite wearing to be driving over there two and three times an evening when he bollixed his remote for the TV. When I realized he'd messed up a newish microwave oven, probably by punching in a too long cook time... I unplugged it and took it to the e-cycle and said I'll get you another, and called up the daughter and said you need to step on the gas with that search my dear, he's gonna fry the house.
I'm happy for your mom you can look after her but you must look after yourself too.
On my mind lately now, how to get back the quilt tops I've given to the long arm quilter, and give her more to work on... my sister managed to pick up one last weekend that was meant for her to keep and use anyway.
But there's another one of mine that Angie has in hand now, a "charm quilt" with 288 different fabrics in it, a pieced top that had been wrapped up in muslin upstairs since around 2012 waiting to be quilted... and a couple more large quilts I'm preparing to flip in her direction. The charm quilt was fun, here's a work in progress shot, likely not the final arrangement, I remember having to rip a section out after assembly when I realized I'd got half a swastika in there messing with the light/dark placements. Ugh!
The main thing with a charm quilt is making the scrap selection all in one go or you can't keep in your mind whether you've used that fabric already or not. I even shooed the cats out of the house while I selected those "ingredients". It will just be a couch throw for my sister in law; she's an artist so I figured would be fun to have it over her in the evening just looking at all the different prints.
Angie's way over in Binghamton but stops up to Ithaca to transact w/ clients; I have kin up there so that's how I get my stuff to her usually. But my kin and I all agreed to leave off our casual lunch gatherings for the time being until the threat from coronovirus finally wanes. So, it could be awhile and I might resume work on smaller projects in the meantime.
Still I have this fun thing with green and blue and random sized cuts of black and white polkadot fabric that I called Picnic By the Pool... I'd love to use it as a picnic blanket for some summer lunches this year. On the back I'd just put some utility batik in stone and green or whatever to deal with the inevitable grass stains lol. I want to get that off the ground, and so might just machine quilt it myself. it's only meant to be a utility ground cover to reduce chance of having a picnic with frenemies like deer ticks.