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Unfortunately no one lets you choose to just ignore it. People expect you to participate in it all. But we won’t so much as send or open a card. It’s just another day. I’ll probably garden or work if the weather is crap.
For me it’s not another day obviously, but I respect those that don’t celebrate it. Honestly, I tend to respect them more than those that put lot of attention to the day but then forget about what it is about until Easter at most.

I’d gladly get rid of this societal pressure to buy gifts for adults. Heck even at work there are initiatives that drive me crazy (secret Santa etc.). No, I don’t want to spend $20 on a bs gift for a person I barely know just because I am told to do so.
 
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For me it’s not another day obviously, but I respect those that don’t celebrate it. Honestly, I tend to respect them more than those that put lot of attention to the day but then forget about what it is about until Easter at most.

I’d gladly get rid of this societal pressure to buy gifts for adults. Heck even at work there are initiatives that drive me crazy (secret Santa etc.). No, I don’t want to spend $20 on a bs gift for a person I barely know just because I am told to do so.
Not participating in giving or worse being asked what gift you want is so liberating. I hated both sides of that conundrum.

Tomorrow is November. It’s due to start getting cold around Thursday this week. Still not put out heating on. But layers can only do so much.
 
Recent gripes with all my Apple products:
-Apple Pencil (2nd gen) the eraser doesn’t widen anymore when tilting the pen
-HomePod (Mini) won’t “play music I like” anymore, will instead play random songs from my whole music collection (I’m Apple One/Music subscriber too)
-Apple Watch my baby keeps touching the screen causing the ‘edit home screen’ function to work, or he swipes up and turns off Wi-Fi. It would be great to baby proof the AW (no I do not want Water Lock)
-iPhones issue similar to AW, were briefly touching the Lock Screen brings up the ‘edit home screen’ function. Numerous times this happens when phone is locked and I’m either carrying it in my hands (with other things) or when phone is locked and turning on the torch feature
-HomePod Mini again. I have 5 of them around my house and have 3 of them set to play a different song depending on who has left/arrived. If a few hours later I want to play a song on one of them, it will play on the 3 of them instead. Annoyingly I have to go into Home app and sort it out
-MacBook Pro when opening an internet link from Mail app, it moves the Safari tab next to the Mail tab. I like to have my full screen Mail tab to the left of the desktop screen, and have full screen Safari tab to the right of desktop screen. Any other apps I open fullscreen I like to keep to the right of Safari tab too
-Apple Watch Workout app would be great if it was possible to reclassify a completed workout. The number of times I’ve accidentally selected an Outdoor Run instead of an Indoor Run and vice versa, same with cycling. It matters as calories burnt etc differ
-I’m sure I’ll think of some more
 
Culinary question.
Sometimes I make unleavened bread as it’s fairly easy to make and requires no wait etc.
How long can the dough last in the refrigerator? I’d like to prepare everything the night before but actually bake it in the morning.
 
Recent gripes with all my Apple products:
-Apple Watch Workout app would be great if it was possible to reclassify a completed workout. The number of times I’ve accidentally selected an Outdoor Run instead of an Indoor Run and vice versa, same with cycling. It matters as calories burnt etc differ
Same here.
 
Not participating in giving or worse being asked what gift you want is so liberating. I hated both sides of that conundrum.

Tomorrow is November. It’s due to start getting cold around Thursday this week. Still not put out heating on. But layers can only do so much.
The only ones don't like are the ones who deviate from SS. What's the point of three things when you don't get one? If I write surprise like I do once in a while, that's different
 
Went to an Apple Store to kill some time, and tried the Magic Mouse a little bit… how is Apple still selling that thing?!

Horrible ergonomics, when I was scrolling through web pages I found myself accidentally clicking on things rather than just scrolling.

Now I understand why there are users that avoid it like the plague.

Those MacBook Pros though… those are some fine machines ❤️
 
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Recent gripes with all my Apple products:
-Apple Pencil (2nd gen) the eraser doesn’t widen anymore when tilting the pen
-HomePod (Mini) won’t “play music I like” anymore, will instead play random songs from my whole music collection (I’m Apple One/Music subscriber too)
-Apple Watch my baby keeps touching the screen causing the ‘edit home screen’ function to work, or he swipes up and turns off Wi-Fi. It would be great to baby proof the AW (no I do not want Water Lock)
-iPhones issue similar to AW, were briefly touching the Lock Screen brings up the ‘edit home screen’ function. Numerous times this happens when phone is locked and I’m either carrying it in my hands (with other things) or when phone is locked and turning on the torch feature
-HomePod Mini again. I have 5 of them around my house and have 3 of them set to play a different song depending on who has left/arrived. If a few hours later I want to play a song on one of them, it will play on the 3 of them instead. Annoyingly I have to go into Home app and sort it out
-MacBook Pro when opening an internet link from Mail app, it moves the Safari tab next to the Mail tab. I like to have my full screen Mail tab to the left of the desktop screen, and have full screen Safari tab to the right of desktop screen. Any other apps I open fullscreen I like to keep to the right of Safari tab too
-Apple Watch Workout app would be great if it was possible to reclassify a completed workout. The number of times I’ve accidentally selected an Outdoor Run instead of an Indoor Run and vice versa, same with cycling. It matters as calories burnt etc differ
-I’m sure I’ll think of some more
My list:
  1. auto-[in]correct in iOS
  2. MacOS Finder windows not showing full filenames when there is enough space to do so (I have a 27" iMac, for heaven's sake), with no option in system settings to make showing full file names the default. My guess is this would take an intern about a week to do...
  3. Subscriptions of any kind
  4. Pretty much the entire new iOS lock screen that looks like a junky cluttered mess IMO.
  5. The fact that it is too easy to turn off the iOS timer on the lock screen when swiping up - it should require confirmation.
  6. iMessage freezing in MacOS so it doesn't update.
  7. And of course my favourite gripe - Apple not formally and publicly removing all vestiges of its CSAM spying software from iOS. My phone, my property, my electrical power, my privacy (unless law enforcement has a search warrant). Apple can scan their servers - their property - for illegal content instead.
-A cranky old guy
 
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Re. post-it blocks - love them around workplaces.
But that’s it. I downloaded a digital version to just see how they organized that.

My opinion: it sucks totally as an app.

The app Things, have it on all devices, are in the category: one of my mostly used apps.
It’s way beyond what post-it can be digitally.

A lot depends on how well we can organize our time, thoughts and lives, so the somewhat pricy Things is so beyond worth it to me, and have it synced on all devices.

My favs on iOS:
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I really, really dislike and detest, winter.

The cold, the wet, the depressing darkness and lack of light.

Actually, I wouldn't mind curling up and falling asleep (somewhere warm and cosy) until around the middle of next March.
 
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I really, really dislike and detest, winter.

The cold, the wet, the depressing darkness and lack of light.

Actually, I wouldn't mind curling up and falling asleep (somewhere warm and cosy) until around the middle of next March.
Are you a squirrel? Not a fan here either. We are still keeping the heating off, but it’s down to 15 in my bedroom.
 
Are you a squirrel? Not a fan here either. We are still keeping the heating off, but it’s down to 15 in my bedroom.

No, but I love light and heat and warmth....and detest those cold, dark, dreary days; wet, too.

I know that I say this (and write it) every year, but I really cannot abide winter.

My mother felt the same way.
 
I really, really dislike and detest, winter.

The cold, the wet, the depressing darkness and lack of light.

Actually, I wouldn't mind curling up and falling asleep (somewhere warm and cosy) until around the middle of next March.
In Scotland we go into Winter Mode: During the day, we consume lots of hot drinks and soup. During the evening we settle at pubs with a fireplace, whisky, friends, and more whisky. The early dark hours makes it easier to go for drinks after work. Mind you, so do the long summer evenings. ;)

Anyway, the one good thing about being so far North (same latitude as the southern tip of the Hudson Bay) is that the seasons really change quickly. At the equinox's, the change in total daylight hours is more than 4 minutes per day...
 
In Scotland we go into Winter Mode: During the day, we consume lots of hot drinks and soup. During the evening we settle at pubs with a fireplace, whisky, friends, and more whisky. The early dark hours makes it easier to go for drinks after work. Mind you, so do the long summer evenings. ;)

Anyway, the one good thing about being so far North (same latitude as the southern tip of the Hudson Bay) is that the seasons really change quickly. At the equinox's, the change in total daylight hours is more than 4 minutes per day...
Pubs with fireplaces (home to a blazing fire) are among the cosiest spots one can spend some time during winter (late autumn, early spring) in our latitudes, agreed. There is a very good reason (our cold, dark wet winters) why our pubs are so warm and welcoming and downright cosy and why Britain and Ireland both "get" the whole idea of why cosy pubs are a vitally important public space in our culture in winter.

And, yes, I am also one of these (almost anal?) people who note the time of sunset and sunrise throughout the year; in fact, I used to do that long before I embarked on life choices which meant that I got to travel a lot (for both personal and professional reasons).
 
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Anyway, the one good thing about being so far North (same latitude as the southern tip of the Hudson Bay) is that the seasons really change quickly. At the equinox's, the change in total daylight hours is more than 4 minutes per day...

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And, yes, I am also one of these (almost anal?) people who note the time of sunset and sunrise throughout the year; in fact, I used to do that long before I embarked on life choices which meant that I got to travel a lot (for both personal and professional reasons).

I believe that the rate of change of daylight during the year changes as a sine curve. Around the solstices (mid winter and mid summer) it changes hardly at all and around the equinoxes it changes at the fastest rate.

It is the same with tides during the day. In most places the height of the tide changes according to a sine curve ( I know this, because I measured the rate of change as part of a job many, many moons ago).

It all has something to do with the fact that things are nearly circular (the earth, the earth's rotation, the earth's orbit around the sun, etc.)

It is actually a very good argument to use against the flat-earthers. You can't have sine-wave tides if the earth is flat.
 
You have my sympathy, SS! We have another week here in the US to enjoy Daylight Savings Time, but our turn is coming, all too soon.... I am hoping that over the next several months that a decision is finally made on the part of our legislators that we go to Daylight Savings Time permanently when we make the switch in March 2023, so that we can just be done with this nonsense.

Ahh yes, today is the reason I like November and January the least in the year (Xmas festivities alleviate somewhat December) sun sets in 15 minutes or so and now I will be leaving work in the dark. :mad:

Regarding the retro love for pen, paper and other old school writing implements I must say that my director would agree with you. He writes very nicely and always writes notes for work instructions and uses a journal to keep track of work and personal dates. We chipped in and got him a Montblanc fountain pen for his birthday which he greatly appreciates and uses.

I on the other hand bless the digital age as my handwriting has always been, to say the least, subpar. Even worse is over 4 years ago I had to have my index and middle finger of my right hand amputated - and I am right-handed. I have largely adapted but have a more difficult time to write - I can write slowly with my right hand (as to sign documents) and despite practice can't learn to write left-handed. So thank goodness and human ingenuity for computers and smartphones. But I still admire handwritten documents and paper books.

We had a mixture of rain and sun. So still managed a walk.
But yes no fan of going to and from work in the dark everyday. I have enough reasons to hate November and December. At least by January the days start to get longer.

Nope Xmas is the worst. Always enjoy December 26th. As far as you can get away from one of the most depressing days of the year.

Agreed.

I hear you.

I also have reasons to hate December (yesterday, I realized that I really miss my mother, - certainly, as she was before dementia claimed her mind, memory and marbles - that lively, lovely, funny, fiercely intelligent woman with whom I laughed and talked endlessly, miss being able to chat with her, tease her, talk things through with her, laugh with her, discuss books, politics and plays...)

And I have always detested November and January.

Not a fan of Christmas either.

Unfortunately no one lets you choose to just ignore it. People expect you to participate in it all. But we won’t so much as send or open a card. It’s just another day. I’ll probably garden or work if the weather is crap.

Last night, the clocks went back, heralding what is probably the single most depressing day of the year for me, as I know that the light (and the length of the day) will take four more months before it returns to what it was yesterday (a day of veritable downpours, granted).
It is so interesting to read what you all posted. I understand the points you make, I really do. But here is what I think (clocks went back where I am from as well):

I have been looking forward to this day for the past few weeks. And not because the weekend is an hour longer, you get to sleep in for a week or because you get to go to bed an hour later (until your inner clock starts to adjust). No.

I love Autumn and Winter for the mood it creates.

I enjoy September, it is the time when the summer starts to fade out. Then the first colder days appear and it gets rainier. Everything calms down somehow.

October just amplifies this mood. Rough weather, where you can feel nature around you. It ends with Halloween.

In November it then gets even colder. And darker. Everything slows down. You stay inside more, in your warm apartment. Enjoying Tea and some cookies with a good book. Warm and good food. An idea of Christmas is in the air. But first there is Thanksgiving. Another holiday to look forward to (apart from the sad consumerism it brings with it...).

In December, once Thanksgiving is over, the Christmas time officially starts (it started way earlier for me, but now its official). The 4 weeks preceding Christmas are my favourite weeks of the year. Everything kind of comes to an end. Not a single thought spend on the next year until New Years Eve is over. The cities are decorated. People are in a hurry to get everything prepared. And with the sun setting at around 4pm and rising at around 9am it feels like the world is covered in a huge blanked. Warm and cozy.

I love being in the gym, just loosing myself on the treadmill while it is raining outside and I watch the cars go by.

Or when you have one of those productive days in the office, when everything just flows, you listen to some jazz or Christmas music and it starts to get darker outside (this is happening as I am writing this comment, though I could be more productive I reckon haha).

I love reading Harry Potter and sitting outside watching people go by. Feeling the cold air on my hands and face. Maybe even spoil myself to one of those overpriced coffees to go every once in a while.

I could go on for a few more paragraphs...


January to March are a mess though. The mood that I love so much vanishes after New Years. It is just a depressing time where I look forward to the next Christmas :p.

Would love to hear your thoughts. Can you relate in any way?
 
This is who I want to become when I grow up. Kittens are THE ultimate test.

Wonderful.

And I must say that I loved @decafjava's question, (and your reply), as well.
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Would love to hear your thoughts. Can you relate in any way?
No.

Not really.

I will admit that early to mid autumn has its attractions, but I loathe, abominate, detest, winter.
 
It is so interesting to read what you all posted. I understand the points you make, I really do. But here is what I think (clocks went back where I am from as well):

I have been looking forward to this day for the past few weeks. And not because the weekend is an hour longer, you get to sleep in for a week or because you get to go to bed an hour later (until your inner clock starts to adjust). No.

I love Autumn and Winter for the mood it creates.

I enjoy September, it is the time when the summer starts to fade out. Then the first colder days appear and it gets rainier. Everything calms down somehow.

October just amplifies this mood. Rough weather, where you can feel nature around you. It ends with Halloween.

In November it then gets even colder. And darker. Everything slows down. You stay inside more, in your warm apartment. Enjoying Tea and some cookies with a good book. Warm and good food. An idea of Christmas is in the air. But first there is Thanksgiving. Another holiday to look forward to (apart from the sad consumerism it brings with it...).

In December, once Thanksgiving is over, the Christmas time officially starts (it started way earlier for me, but now its official). The 4 weeks preceding Christmas are my favourite weeks of the year. Everything kind of comes to an end. Not a single thought spend on the next year until New Years Eve is over. The cities are decorated. People are in a hurry to get everything prepared. And with the sun setting at around 4pm and rising at around 9am it feels like the world is covered in a huge blanked. Warm and cozy.

I love being in the gym, just loosing myself on the treadmill while it is raining outside and I watch the cars go by.

Or when you have one of those productive days in the office, when everything just flows, you listen to some jazz or Christmas music and it starts to get darker outside (this is happening as I am writing this comment, though I could be more productive I reckon haha).

I love reading Harry Potter and sitting outside watching people go by. Feeling the cold air on my hands and face. Maybe even spoil myself to one of those overpriced coffees to go every once in a while.

I could go on for a few more paragraphs...


January to March are a mess though. The mood that I love so much vanishes after New Years. It is just a depressing time where I look forward to the next Christmas :p.

Would love to hear your thoughts. Can you relate in any way?

I totally agree with you. Was keeping quiet but I love this time of year! I don’t like summer at all.
 
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In Scotland we go into Winter Mode: During the day, we consume lots of hot drinks and soup. During the evening we settle at pubs with a fireplace, whisky, friends, and more whisky. The early dark hours makes it easier to go for drinks after work. Mind you, so do the long summer evenings. ;)

Anyway, the one good thing about being so far North (same latitude as the southern tip of the Hudson Bay) is that the seasons really change quickly. At the equinox's, the change in total daylight hours is more than 4 minutes per day...
It’s nice of you to speak for the whole nation of Scotland lol. Might make an idealistic tourism advert, but actual reality is that a lot of good pubs are closing down at a faster rate these days because most people don’t frequent them (either through choice or because of budget)
 
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