I'm of multiple minds and moods about local ambience, and I'm just one person!
Loved the hustle and anonymity of the city. Bright lights and buzz but still the simple routines you could set your watch by, like the Times trucks dropping off their newsstand bundles in the evening, going out and getting a paper and a bagel for the morning.
Love the peace and quiet and complete darkness at night in the sticks. Sometimes admire and sometimes rant over the fact that half the county here wears no watch and celebrates "Delaware County Time" also known as "Getting A Round Tuit" when they get around to it. Somehow it usually works out...
Hated the screech of trains on curved tracks and the sirens of emergency response vehicles in the city. Hate the sound of those sirens now too but it's because the responders and the victims are neighbors. John Donne's line "Ask not for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee" may ring truer in the boondocks...
I miss the 24/7 of the city as far as services go and sometimes resent having to drive 30 miles rt if i forgot something important during my last grocery run. But I don't think twice about driving 80 miles rt to have lunch with kin or friends, probably because the trip is so scenic.
As far as rural utility services go, there are some drawbacks. We lose power fairly often in the mountains. Our internet service is noncompetitive and not great. I live in a 400 square mile cellular dead zone. But it's ok to be reminded to be grateful for my blessings when one of them does a vanishing act now and then.
I've only really been enraged once by life in the boondocks, when the local water dude shut the water mains for elective maintenance without bothering to notify anyone. I went looking for him hastily dressed and with wet hair (having used a gallon of emergency drinking water to rinse off shampoo), driving around the nearby village until I found him running a backhoe in some front yard. His response: "Well geez, shutting it off at 11am, what were you doing in the shower at that point in the forenoon anyway". Said his wife told him to do it then because everyone would be done with laundry and lunch was ready but not quite time to eat. LOL man, life in the sticks. The right moment to do something is rigid and random at the same time.
Truthfully I enjoy it up here and only really miss the city once in awhile. I've been known to get in the car and just run down there when I miss it... making and storing up extra memories for when that's not such a likely option later on.