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Rural for me coming home should mean going into relax mode and for that I need that small town feeling with lots of green, water and not a whole lot of neighbors for that I'm willing to accept longer drives to work, college

I just can't stand big cities and everything they stand for
 
And likewise, when I was writing a history book, most of the 'good' writing was done between the house of 8.p.m. (20.00) and 2.00 a.m. (2.00); morning was for culling, correcting, checking facts, grammar, syntax, spelling, trimming flights of fancy and checking & confirming sources. The afternoons I usually took off, and went for a long walk.
Back in the early years of that UPS job (before I was married) I did my best prep work for gaming (pencil/paper/dice RPGs) after getting home from work. That would have been around 2am or so on a Saturday morning.

Incidentally, my father was in the Marine Corps during the Korean War, taught me military time. Every computer/device I use personally is set to use it and because it was in common usage by me by the time my kids came around they also know it.

Of course, outside the US like where you live, it's just regular time but something I prefer personally. :)
 
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Rural for me coming home should mean going into relax mode and for that I need that small town feeling with lots of green, water and not a whole lot of neighbors for that I'm willing to accept longer drives to work, college

I just can't stand big cities and everything they stand for

Living in city centres meant that my commute - such as it was - occurred on foot.

I loved being able to walk to work, and never being more than half an hour away - on foot - from where I worked.
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Back in the early years of that UPS job (before I was married) I did my best prep work for gaming (pencil/paper/dice RPGs) after getting home from work. That would have been around 2am or so on a Saturday morning.

Incidentally, my father was in the Marine Corps during the Korean War, taught me military time. Every computer/device I use personally is set to use it and because it was in common usage by me by the time my kids came around they also know it.

Of course, outside the US like where you live, it's just regular time but something I prefer personally. :)

These days, when I am working, I work for international and/or supranational organisations and they all operate on the 24 hour clock, so I am well used to it, too.
 
Rural for me coming home should mean going into relax mode and for that I need that small town feeling with lots of green, water and not a whole lot of neighbors for that I'm willing to accept longer drives to work, college

I just can't stand big cities and everything they stand for
LOL!!!

Coming home to a rural area makes my blood start boiling about all the inconveniences I am about to suffer. When I come home to my urban home I am much more able to relax because all my devices and services are right there.

Being able to disappear into the online world is much more relaxing to me than staring at scenery.

I am not invalidating your opinion, just mentioning how it works with me. We're all different and that was the point of this thread so I'm glad that what you have works for you.
 
LOL!!!

Coming home to a rural area makes my blood start boiling about all the inconveniences I am about to suffer. When I come home to my urban home I am much more able to relax because all my devices and services are right there.

Being able to disappear into the online world is much more relaxing to me than staring at scenery.

I am not invalidating your opinion, just mentioning how it works with me. We're all different and that was the point of this thread so I'm glad that what you have works for you.

Excellent post and I am in complete agreement with you.

When I spend a week-end in a rural retreat, or spot, I like to have what my subconscious has described as "my escape" well planned in advance. Means, mode of transport - and time - all preplanned.

Actually, I cannot relax in a rural setting unless and until I know when my departure is scheduled to take place. Then, and only then, do I fully immerse myself in the myriad joys of rural life.
 
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Another nocturnal creature here...... Back in my working days I was a librarian in the local public library system, and people were always surprised when I preferred to work the evening shift (1:00 PM - 9:00 PM) rather than the day shift (9:30 AM - 6:00 PM). Most of the time my schedule was three evenings a week, and in addition, if someone needed to swap their schedule from evening to day, I was always happy to volunteer!

Now that I am a "lady of leisure," retired and no longer working, I can set my own hours as I please and it is not unusual for me to be still reading a good book at 3:00 or even 4:00 AM and then to sleep in until noon!

I liked the evening shift because it did provide me more flexibility in the mornings if there were errands that I needed to run prior to going in to work, and I also appreciated being in a suburban area where many places were still open (grocery store, pharmacy, etc.) after 9:00 PM so that I could stop in on my way home from work.

And, yep, while rural scenery is pretty and the country life seems fresh and open somehow, I know I would never be happy living in such an environment all the time. I'm not one to enjoy going on camping trips in rural areas! One big priority, of course, is access to the internet for me and my electronic devices.....and that's not going to happen in a woodsy place far from anywhere!
 
Excellent post and I am in complete agreement with you.

When I spend a week-end in a rural retreat, or spot, I like to have what my subconscious has described as "my escape" well planned in advance. Means, mode of transport - and time - all preplanned.

Actually, I cannot relax in a rural setting unless and until I know when my departure is scheduled to take place. Then, and only then, do I fully immerse myself in the myriad joys of rural life.
My parents still live in the same place they subjected me to during my teen years. It's changed and grown in the 17 years since we left and not so bad now whenever we visit because at least the modern conveniences are actually in the area now.

Back then it was a matter of just walking away from the house and going wherever you wanted. Over hill and through canyon or up the mountain and down the other side.

Now, all that stuff has long been fenced off because the property owners got tired of people (kids and teens) trekking through their property on their way to wherever.

When I feel like crying about that though I remember that there's at least three Starbucks in the area and a Walmart so that cheers me up! :D

It gets harder and harder for my dad to shuttle my kids around to see the 'rural' life now though. He has to go out farther to do it.

Fortunately for all concerned my mom long ago got internet at the house so that helps a lot. :D

I attribute that to me and inertia however. I'm the the one that brought cable to the house and my parents just kept it once they realized it was something nice to have. :)
 
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I also prefer driving in the suburbs or urban areas to driving in the country -- in the suburbs or urban areas, there are always places around to stop and to get assistance if need be -- driving along lonely, winding country roads with no landmarks and no place to stop to ask for directions or to refill the gas tank really unnerves me. Give me the suburbs with Starbucks on every corner! :)
 
I liked the evening shift because it did provide me more flexibility in the mornings if there were errands that I needed to run prior to going in to work, and I also appreciated being in a suburban area where many places were still open (grocery store, pharmacy, etc.) after 9:00 PM so that I could stop in on my way home from work.
Ah, yes! Another point I should have brought up.

Living at my parents, nocturnal visits to grocery stores or convenience stores was severly limited. Within 30 miles there were only two stores open 24 hours and neither of those stores arrived until the early 90s. All the drug stores closed at 8 or 9 and if you needed cold medicine or something you had that 30 minute drive down the freeway to get it.

Eventually McDonalds went 24 hours but that was 15 minutes away and was your only fast food choice at 3am.

So, yeah, I've gotten real used to being able to get up and go out and get something at 2 in the morning now. Living in Phoenix there's 24 hour restaurants, drug stores and auto parts stores just to mention some.
 
24-hour pharmacies and other places, not to mention the now-ubiquitous ATM machines everywhere are a real lifesaver if one needs meds in the middle of the night or wants to grab a quick bite to eat, or even needs to get extra cash...... The latter, of course, is not to be done if one is alone and the surrounding environment is dark and deserted!
 
Rural for me. Grew up in suburbia California, Silicon Valley. We moved and have been rural for 35 years. It’s 15 minutes to the local small grocery store, 30 minutes to the next town with gas and normal stores. My daily commute is an hour. We can’t seen any neighbors, and live 2 miles up a dirt road. Satellite is our only internet, no cell service. Lately I think that’s been a good thing.

Every time I return to visit family I get the creepy crawlies having so many people around. I’m the one plotting my escape route from the mass of humanity in case something goes wrong, just the opposite from some of you. We love being on our own, even in our elder years.

We’ve had friends from back east who couldn’t stay at our place because they found the valley claustrophobic because of all the hills that blocked the views. We also have friends in the closest town that have never been out to our valley, 30 minutes away. I find that amazing since things are so spread out here. And they’ve never walked on dirt, everything around them is cement road/sidewalks.

We’re daylight people. Get up with the sun and go to bed early at dusk.

We can sit on the deck and watch turkeys, deer, cows (wait, we don’t have cows, how did they get in our yard?), raccoons, squirrels, chickens, hawks, oops, one less chicken, and the creek making noise in the background. Better than any vacation spot.
 
I also prefer driving in the suburbs or urban areas to driving in the country -- in the suburbs or urban areas, there are always places around to stop and to get assistance if need be -- driving along lonely, winding country roads with no landmarks and no place to stop to ask for directions or to refill the gas tank really unnerves me. Give me the suburbs with Starbucks on every corner! :)
I hear you. One of the exits off the I-10 that you take to get to my parents has a stretch of road that's about 10 miles or more long. It goes through dog training fields, a chicken/egg farm and outlying homes. But because it's in an unincorporated area of the county there are NO streetlights. Before I moved away it was even more desolate until you got to the main cross street.

There's another road that runs parallel to it that's even more remote.

Breaking down there means you're in for a very long walk.
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We can sit on the deck and watch turkeys, deer, cows (wait, we don’t have cows, how did they get in our yard?), raccoons, squirrels, chickens, hawks, oops, one less chicken, and the creek making noise in the background. Better than any vacation spot.
That reminded me.

Everyone (or almost everyone) seems to love peacocks. Beautiful to look at but a NUISANCE!

There was a wild flock of them that came through my parents area when I was about 18. And they wouldn't leave. We always had to shoo them off the cars because they got on top of them and crapped all over them. Not to mention that their claws put dents in the metal.

And their crying! OMG that gets on your nerves after so many times.

I hate peacocks!

Oh yeah! Our neighor kept chickens when I lived in the area with my wife (before moving to PHX). I used to have to throw his chickens back over the fence because they kept coming over.

After the dog made too many of them lunch he finally moved his coop.
 
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Oh yeah! Our neighor kept chickens when I lived in the area with my wife (before moving to PHX). I used to have to throw his chickens back over the fence because they kept coming over.

After the dog made too many of them lunch he finally moved his coop.
And nothing is worse than a young rooster that just won’t shut up, all......day.......long. We even bought him special because we hadn’t had one in awhile, and we were losing hens. He lasted about 3 months, then we had to fire him. Peace and quiet reigns again....
 
And nothing is worse than a young rooster that just won’t shut up, all......day.......long. We even bought him special because we hadn’t had one in awhile, and we were losing hens. He lasted about 3 months, then we had to fire him. Peace and quiet reigns again....
Ain't that the truth. How about hearing the piglets when their food is coming?? My dogs go off every afternoon if they're outside and hear them. Can't see'm but boy are they loud. Or the momma cows crying all day and night after their baby calf has been taken from them.

Wild turkeys... in the fall they and the deer rule the roads around here. Can't eat the turkeys though cause their meat is tough and you don't wanna know what wild turkeys eat :eek:

Coyotes around me too. Hearing them at night sounds like a baby crying. Until you realize the sound is coming closer and you're still outside with the dogs at midnight :mad:. One good shot and they're on the run.

Wouldn't leave here for a jackpot lotto win; just buy more land and build bigger :).
 
Ah,
Wouldn't leave here for a jackpot lotto win; just buy more land and build bigger :).
Ah, rural folks sittin' on the porch telling animal stories -I love them - no better way to end the summer day :)
We've got 2 black bear buried in the front pasture - we came home one day to them tearing the siding off the house outside the kitchen window trying to get to a jar of bacon grease.

When we first moved here i ran over some slow quail on the way home from work. Brought them home with me (they werent squished) and we had to call my father in law to ask how to cook them lol...

And the snake that crawled out of the oak tree and landed on my sister. Never heard the end of that one.
 
Ah,

Ah, rural folks sittin' on the porch telling animal stories -I love them - no better way to end the summer day :)
We've got 2 black bear buried in the front pasture - we came home one day to them tearing the siding off the house outside the kitchen window trying to get to a jar of bacon grease.

When we first moved here i ran over some slow quail on the way home from work. Brought them home with me (they werent squished) and we had to call my father in law to ask how to cook them lol...

And the snake that crawled out of the oak tree and landed on my sister. Never heard the end of that one.
Bears, ugh they beautiful at a distance, but they love the bird feeders, hummer feeders and trash that a granddaughter forgot to put in the barn. Came out early one morning before she went to work and my screened in porch was now open aired. Apparently a club came in one side and out another, trash all over the porch and carport. I kept the screen and set it in a picture frame to remind the kids ... put the trash in the barn or burn barrel !!!!!

Snakes, a bad snake is a dead snake. I got one with a quick shot trying to climb up the hummers feeder. This was in early Oct and it was still sluggish from the cold night.

The real bane of my existence are those dang moles :mad:. Nothing kills them. I won't use poison because of the dogs. I run the tractor over the tunnels and they just move onto a new spot of lawn. Kids play wack-a-mole tunnel and wait for them to come out.
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Sorry guys! I can appreciate the landscape and I understand all the thoughts about rural/suburb living.

But this is for me. Less than five minutes to anything!

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Meant to reply to you yesterday. My husband had business at Ft Huachuca years ago, so I decided I was going with him since the kids were now out of school and working. We flew into Phoenix and drove down. When his meetings were finished we went up to Tomestone for a day then went down to Bisbee. I bought some really beautifully framed art work from a local artist which still hangs in my living room. We also walked over to Nogales, and had a beer or two.

It's really beautiful where you live and driving out of Phoenix and seeing all that open space was amazing. It wasn't what I was expecting. Loved the dry climate y'all have.
 
Coyotes around me too. Hearing them at night sounds like a baby crying. Until you realize the sound is coming closer and you're still outside with the dogs at midnight :mad:. One good shot and they're on the run.
Ah Coyotes! Remember them well when living rural.

They killed more than one of my housecats.

Don't care for them at all.
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Meant to reply to you yesterday. My husband had business at Ft Huachuca years ago, so I decided I was going with him since the kids were now out of school and working. We flew into Phoenix and drove down. When his meetings were finished we went up to Tomestone for a day then went down to Bisbee. I bought some really beautifully framed art work from a local artist which still hangs in my living room. We also walked over to Nogales, and had a beer or two.

It's really beautiful where you live and driving out of Phoenix and seeing all that open space was amazing. It wasn't what I was expecting. Loved the dry climate y'all have.
:D

It's a dry heat as they say around here. :)

As long as you're willing to deal with 110º-118º+ from May to October it's very nice during spring and fall. Been many a time where I was wearing shorts in December while the rest of the country was in heavy coats.

We moved out here for jobs but love the climate and the access as well.
 
Ain't that the truth. How about hearing the piglets when their food is coming?? My dogs go off every afternoon if they're outside and hear them. Can't see'm but boy are they loud. Or the momma cows crying all day and night after their baby calf has been taken from them.

Wild turkeys... in the fall they and the deer rule the roads around here. Can't eat the turkeys though cause their meat is tough and you don't wanna know what wild turkeys eat :eek:

Coyotes around me too. Hearing them at night sounds like a baby crying. Until you realize the sound is coming closer and you're still outside with the dogs at midnight :mad:. One good shot and they're on the run.

Wouldn't leave here for a jackpot lotto win; just buy more land and build bigger :).

Ah,

Ah, rural folks sittin' on the porch telling animal stories -I love them - no better way to end the summer day :)
We've got 2 black bear buried in the front pasture - we came home one day to them tearing the siding off the house outside the kitchen window trying to get to a jar of bacon grease.

When we first moved here i ran over some slow quail on the way home from work. Brought them home with me (they werent squished) and we had to call my father in law to ask how to cook them lol...

And the snake that crawled out of the oak tree and landed on my sister. Never heard the end of that one.

Bears, ugh they beautiful at a distance, but they love the bird feeders, hummer feeders and trash that a granddaughter forgot to put in the barn. Came out early one morning before she went to work and my screened in porch was now open aired. Apparently a club came in one side and out another, trash all over the porch and carport. I kept the screen and set it in a picture frame to remind the kids ... put the trash in the barn or burn barrel !!!!!

Snakes, a bad snake is a dead snake. I got one with a quick shot trying to climb up the hummers feeder. This was in early Oct and it was still sluggish from the cold night.

The real bane of my existence are those dang moles :mad:. Nothing kills them. I won't use poison because of the dogs. I run the tractor over the tunnels and they just move onto a new spot of lawn. Kids play wack-a-mole tunnel and wait for them to come out.
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Meant to reply to you yesterday. My husband had business at Ft Huachuca years ago, so I decided I was going with him since the kids were now out of school and working. We flew into Phoenix and drove down. When his meetings were finished we went up to Tomestone for a day then went down to Bisbee. I bought some really beautifully framed art work from a local artist which still hangs in my living room. We also walked over to Nogales, and had a beer or two.

It's really beautiful where you live and driving out of Phoenix and seeing all that open space was amazing. It wasn't what I was expecting. Loved the dry climate y'all have.

Ah Coyotes! Remember them well when living rural.

They killed more than one of my housecats.

Don't care for them at all.
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It's a dry heat as they say around here. :)

As long as you're willing to deal with 110º-118º+ from May to October it's very nice during spring and fall. Been many a time where I was wearing shorts in December while the rest of the country was in heavy coats.

We moved out here for jobs but love the climate and the access as well.

Beautifully written, atmospheric and wonderfully evocative posts. A pure pleasure to read.

Nevertheless, I remain adamantly unconvinced about the joys of rural living..........
 
Beautifully written, atmospheric and wonderfully evocative posts. A pure pleasure to read.

Nevertheless, I remain adamantly unconvinced about the joys of rural living..........
Thank you for those kind words. As you have said, rural living isn't for everyone.

When I was young my family always took vacations to Myrtle Beach, SC and I fell in love with it. The sounds of the waves hitting the beach was memorizing. My husband and I also took our kids and grandkids to the same beach for vacations. About 20 years ago we almost bought a beach front house but the kids talked us out of it.

Sacrifices for modern technologies had to be made, but the mountains and rural living is where our hearts are.

One of the most important decisions in life is that one lives in a place where they love and visit other places but yearn to come home. Sometimes there are circumstances where that decision has to be delayed. In retirement, that decision can be easier.
 
LOL!!!

Coming home to a rural area makes my blood start boiling about all the inconveniences I am about to suffer. When I come home to my urban home I am much more able to relax because all my devices and services are right there.

Being able to disappear into the online world is much more relaxing to me than staring at scenery.

I am not invalidating your opinion, just mentioning how it works with me. We're all different and that was the point of this thread so I'm glad that what you have works for you.

I'm of multiple minds and moods about local ambience, and I'm just one person!

Loved the hustle and anonymity of the city. Bright lights and buzz but still the simple routines you could set your watch by, like the Times trucks dropping off their newsstand bundles in the evening, going out and getting a paper and a bagel for the morning.

Love the peace and quiet and complete darkness at night in the sticks. Sometimes admire and sometimes rant over the fact that half the county here wears no watch and celebrates "Delaware County Time" also known as "Getting A Round Tuit" when they get around to it. Somehow it usually works out... :rolleyes:

Hated the screech of trains on curved tracks and the sirens of emergency response vehicles in the city. Hate the sound of those sirens now too but it's because the responders and the victims are neighbors. John Donne's line "Ask not for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee" may ring truer in the boondocks...

I miss the 24/7 of the city as far as services go and sometimes resent having to drive 30 miles rt if i forgot something important during my last grocery run. But I don't think twice about driving 80 miles rt to have lunch with kin or friends, probably because the trip is so scenic.

As far as rural utility services go, there are some drawbacks. We lose power fairly often in the mountains. Our internet service is noncompetitive and not great. I live in a 400 square mile cellular dead zone. But it's ok to be reminded to be grateful for my blessings when one of them does a vanishing act now and then.

I've only really been enraged once by life in the boondocks, when the local water dude shut the water mains for elective maintenance without bothering to notify anyone. I went looking for him hastily dressed and with wet hair (having used a gallon of emergency drinking water to rinse off shampoo), driving around the nearby village until I found him running a backhoe in some front yard. His response: "Well geez, shutting it off at 11am, what were you doing in the shower at that point in the forenoon anyway". Said his wife told him to do it then because everyone would be done with laundry and lunch was ready but not quite time to eat. LOL man, life in the sticks. The right moment to do something is rigid and random at the same time.

Truthfully I enjoy it up here and only really miss the city once in awhile. I've been known to get in the car and just run down there when I miss it... making and storing up extra memories for when that's not such a likely option later on.
 
I'm of multiple minds and moods about local ambience, and I'm just one person!

Loved the hustle and anonymity of the city. Bright lights and buzz but still the simple routines you could set your watch by, like the Times trucks dropping off their newsstand bundles in the evening, going out and getting a paper and a bagel for the morning.

Love the peace and quiet and complete darkness at night in the sticks. Sometimes admire and sometimes rant over the fact that half the county here wears no watch and celebrates "Delaware County Time" also known as "Getting A Round Tuit" when they get around to it. Somehow it usually works out... :rolleyes:

Hated the screech of trains on curved tracks and the sirens of emergency response vehicles in the city. Hate the sound of those sirens now too but it's because the responders and the victims are neighbors. John Donne's line "Ask not for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee" may ring truer in the boondocks...

I miss the 24/7 of the city as far as services go and sometimes resent having to drive 30 miles rt if i forgot something important during my last grocery run. But I don't think twice about driving 80 miles rt to have lunch with kin or friends, probably because the trip is so scenic.

As far as rural utility services go, there are some drawbacks. We lose power fairly often in the mountains. Our internet service is noncompetitive and not great. I live in a 400 square mile cellular dead zone. But it's ok to be reminded to be grateful for my blessings when one of them does a vanishing act now and then.

I've only really been enraged once by life in the boondocks, when the local water dude shut the water mains for elective maintenance without bothering to notify anyone. I went looking for him hastily dressed and with wet hair (having used a gallon of emergency drinking water to rinse off shampoo), driving around the nearby village until I found him running a backhoe in some front yard. His response: "Well geez, shutting it off at 11am, what were you doing in the shower at that point in the forenoon anyway". Said his wife told him to do it then because everyone would be done with laundry and lunch was ready but not quite time to eat. LOL man, life in the sticks. The right moment to do something is rigid and random at the same time.

Truthfully I enjoy it up here and only really miss the city once in awhile. I've been known to get in the car and just run down there when I miss it... making and storing up extra memories for when that's not such a likely option later on.

Great post, and beautifully expressed, as always.

I will concede that the sky at night (as long as it is not obscured by cloud cover) in the countryside can be magnificent.

(Once upon a distant time, I dreamed of being an astronomer, so, while I might not gaze all that fondly on flora and fauna, I do like clear, crisp, night skies and an absence of light pollution).
 
I'm of multiple minds and moods about local ambience, and I'm just one person!

Loved the hustle and anonymity of the city. Bright lights and buzz but still the simple routines you could set your watch by, like the Times trucks dropping off their newsstand bundles in the evening, going out and getting a paper and a bagel for the morning.

Love the peace and quiet and complete darkness at night in the sticks. Sometimes admire and sometimes rant over the fact that half the county here wears no watch and celebrates "Delaware County Time" also known as "Getting A Round Tuit" when they get around to it. Somehow it usually works out... :rolleyes:

Hated the screech of trains on curved tracks and the sirens of emergency response vehicles in the city. Hate the sound of those sirens now too but it's because the responders and the victims are neighbors. John Donne's line "Ask not for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee" may ring truer in the boondocks...

I miss the 24/7 of the city as far as services go and sometimes resent having to drive 30 miles rt if i forgot something important during my last grocery run. But I don't think twice about driving 80 miles rt to have lunch with kin or friends, probably because the trip is so scenic.

As far as rural utility services go, there are some drawbacks. We lose power fairly often in the mountains. Our internet service is noncompetitive and not great. I live in a 400 square mile cellular dead zone. But it's ok to be reminded to be grateful for my blessings when one of them does a vanishing act now and then.

I've only really been enraged once by life in the boondocks, when the local water dude shut the water mains for elective maintenance without bothering to notify anyone. I went looking for him hastily dressed and with wet hair (having used a gallon of emergency drinking water to rinse off shampoo), driving around the nearby village until I found him running a backhoe in some front yard. His response: "Well geez, shutting it off at 11am, what were you doing in the shower at that point in the forenoon anyway". Said his wife told him to do it then because everyone would be done with laundry and lunch was ready but not quite time to eat. LOL man, life in the sticks. The right moment to do something is rigid and random at the same time.

Truthfully I enjoy it up here and only really miss the city once in awhile. I've been known to get in the car and just run down there when I miss it... making and storing up extra memories for when that's not such a likely option later on.
I'm of multiple minds and moods about local ambience, and I'm just one person!

Loved the hustle and anonymity of the city. Bright lights and buzz but still the simple routines you could set your watch by, like the Times trucks dropping off their newsstand bundles in the evening, going out and getting a paper and a bagel for the morning.

Love the peace and quiet and complete darkness at night in the sticks. Sometimes admire and sometimes rant over the fact that half the county here wears no watch and celebrates "Delaware County Time" also known as "Getting A Round Tuit" when they get around to it. Somehow it usually works out... :rolleyes:

Hated the screech of trains on curved tracks and the sirens of emergency response vehicles in the city. Hate the sound of those sirens now too but it's because the responders and the victims are neighbors. John Donne's line "Ask not for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee" may ring truer in the boondocks...

I miss the 24/7 of the city as far as services go and sometimes resent having to drive 30 miles rt if i forgot something important during my last grocery run. But I don't think twice about driving 80 miles rt to have lunch with kin or friends, probably because the trip is so scenic.

As far as rural utility services go, there are some drawbacks. We lose power fairly often in the mountains. Our internet service is noncompetitive and not great. I live in a 400 square mile cellular dead zone. But it's ok to be reminded to be grateful for my blessings when one of them does a vanishing act now and then.

I've only really been enraged once by life in the boondocks, when the local water dude shut the water mains for elective maintenance without bothering to notify anyone. I went looking for him hastily dressed and with wet hair (having used a gallon of emergency drinking water to rinse off shampoo), driving around the nearby village until I found him running a backhoe in some front yard. His response: "Well geez, shutting it off at 11am, what were you doing in the shower at that point in the forenoon anyway". Said his wife told him to do it then because everyone would be done with laundry and lunch was ready but not quite time to eat. LOL man, life in the sticks. The right moment to do something is rigid and random at the same time.

Truthfully I enjoy it up here and only really miss the city once in awhile. I've been known to get in the car and just run down there when I miss it... making and storing up extra memories for when that's not such a likely option later on.

I went from unlimited FIOS internet to a WISP with a data cap and rely on that and/or my Att mobile hotspot. Forget about downloading videos or live streaming. Cutting the cord here means the mower ran over a extension cord!

You have local water!!! I rely on a well and septic tank. When we know a storm is coming we fill gallon buckets with water and leave them in the tub. Why you ask, to flush the toilet because the well pump doesn't work without power :mad: . In the winter when the power goes out from ice and snow storms we do the same and have a wood stove to keep the house warm. Wood is stacked on the carport under cover so it's accessible. Food in the fridge and freezer is moved outside into the snow.

There's nothing like the smell of fresh laundry that has just been taken off the clothes line either. I can get three loads of laundry done and dried on the lines in 4 hours. I'll hang laundry outside as long is temps don't go below 40 and there is sunshine.
 
Great post, and beautifully expressed, as always.

I will concede that the sky at night (as long as it is not obscured by cloud cover) in the countryside can be magnificent.

(Once upon a distant time, I dreamed of being an astronomer, so, while I might not gaze all that fondly on flora and fauna, I do like clear, crisp, night skies and an absence of light pollution).

Looking up in nothing but darkness and seeing the Milky Way for the first time was ... well words just can't descibe it adequately. Needless to say, I had the grandkids out the next night with me. They like to track the ISS going across the sky above them too.
 
You have local water!!!

Yah! "BUT.."

We have water service from the near village and I'm near the end of the line (which means I have some concerns about brackishness and backflow after interruptions, so I filter what I drink and cook with). When the system requires attention it can be tedious. Some of the mains are still pretty old so I've learned to keep at least 10 gallons of water on hand. The area's in two protected watersheds so it's all EPA monitored, and our mains run twice under a local creek; the Army Corp of Engineers and state DEC acting as EPA agent must usually be present if the mains there have to be opened. There is no sewer service right around here, and the septic systems have to meet watershed-protective standards.

I love having laundry dried on the line too. I've been known to hang it out in winter on mild days, space out bringing it in before 4pm and so then haul in these board-stiff garments or sheets and towels for a meltdown on racks set in the tub or on the back deck for the sun to find them in the morning. Hate paying the utility co to dry stuff. I do it for turtlenecks and t-shirts sometimes.

Yah I know the drill about lack of power and needing to keep flush water around if there's advance notice. In summer I collect rainwater in a barrel for gardening and it's come in handy for flushing once in awhile. I also have a manual groundwater pump I can use for such utilities, not drinking.

On woodstove... I don't regularly burn wood any more but keep the chimney and stove inspected and seasoned wood on the deck enough to last three or four days. I trade that out to the guy who mows for me every few years so it doesn't get past good burning. I want to get a genny to hook up to the propane tank and the power mains and kick in automatically. My lust for apple gear keeps getting in the way. Meanwhile the prices on those generators keep coming down, and the features improve, so that's working out ok so far. I admit to some uneasiness about not having that installed when we get one of those bad nor'easters though. So far I have lucked out.
 
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