One thing that kind of sucks about the X/XS is that, while the notch personally doesn't bother me, we know it's going to shrink probably in 2019. I think this is the first time on an iPhone where Apple has an aesthetic design element that we know ahead of time is going to get less obtrusive, which will instantly date the X/XS, and that *would* bother me. You could maybe say that happened with the antenna bands on the 6, but at that time I don't think anyone was really positive that those would be improved. With the notch, if they had it for two years and killed it completely that wouldn't bother me, but more likely they will shrink it, and that will make the X/XS a lot less desirable, looking back.
I'm really on the fence. I LOVE my 8 to death but I'm also ready to try something new, but it really needs FaceID gen 2 and a smaller notch if for no other reason than we know it's inevitably going to get smaller, but likely won't disappear.