When I lived in upstate NY in the Finger Lakes, we would sit out on the front porch and watch the distant storms, but when they got close, you had to respect them.
Living out here in the Bay Area of CA, we don't get thunder and lightning that often, but last fall a very intense storm moved in quickly. Normally you see the lightning then hear the thunder, this time the lightning was directly over head in the clouds, the thunder was instantaneous, it shook my place with out warning. It was stronger than the 4.5 earthquake we had earlier in the year. Never heard anything that loud before, except the Concord taking off at Dulles airport, the mother was loud.