You are very motivated by advertising your status, much more than others probably. Apple as a status symbol is why you choose their products. That is so foreign to me.
You're right about me, I don't tell myself a story about how the product isn't a luxury item. In fact, I don't even think about whether the product is a luxury item. I took a Lyft yesterday and noticed the driver wearing an Apple watch. It didn't even occur to me to draw a conclusion about his status. I also noticed he was wearing a cap on his head - that made more of an impression.
I wear a nicer mechanical watch almost all the time. But, I rarely wear it out of the house. I don't think my wife of 40 years draws any conclusion about my status when she sees me wearing it. When I do go out, I might put on my Apple watch if I'll need help unlocking my phone while wearing a mask or paying for something. I don't make the decision based on the status I want to advertise.
Some people list the items they own in their sig to say something about their history with Apple or express some camaraderie with other users. Not everyone is bragging when they try to communicate something.
It's hard to imagine others as being so different than oneself.