i have all my music stored on a NAS, so i assume some delay and i am "ok" with that. However, the only reason i am using iTunes is because i am forced to use it for the iPhone. If i could update my phone from other software, i would ditch iTunes in a heartbeat. Redchairsoftware rocks in my boat for music management and the file is about 900K small.
have been farting around w/iTunes where they need not, instead of releasing a G.D. cocoa version, already.