It wasnt a high school party. It was more of a college / post college party.
It wasnt a pool party. Of course there was a pool, no one knew that things would get out of hand. I have been to a lot of parties were there's a big pool in the house, but no one gets thrown in it or something like that.
So to eedma, it wasnt a stupid decision to bring along my iphone. Maybe you are the kind of person that says, ok today I'm not taking my phone with me cause I may got robbed going to the store, or I am not taking my car out cause I may crash tonight. Dude you are missing a lot of things thinking that way.
The stupid decision was that in that moment, I didn't move away from the pool, I was very near the pool. Or I didn't took away my stuff like my other friend did. However that does'nt mean that the house owner throwing me in the pool just cause I was in the way, was a thing that had to happen. He should' ve thought ok this guy may have important things in his pockets so I'm not doing this.