Maybe its me, but it's always been my rule, that I wont date anyone who Im not physically attracted to. Im not judgemental, its just that I believe that you need that physical attraction to be in a lasting relationship with someone. You need that physical attraction to have that spark, to have that desire, that lust. Without that, and its not the same. As ive learned, I just wont have the desire to take things to the next level, while the other person does. My last 2 relationships (casual dating, nothing intimate, but we talked non stop everyday), lasted quite a while but they both ended simply for one reason - I just wasnt attracted to the person, whereas they were very much towards me and eventually they saw that and we parted ways. Over time, they wanted to hang out more, do more stuff and I would give it another shot here and there, to see, double check if I have that spark with them. I just didnt it with either. Great people to talk to, but I just had no interest in taking things further because I was not physically attracted to them. If there was some physical attraction, I would be okay with that and try to make things work from the personality and out, but I didnt have any at all. I just didnt have that lust and desire that I had from other past relationships where I was eventually in love with the person. You know when you meet someone and over time, you're just crazy about them? And you wanna hang out and explore new hobbies and share experiences together? I never had that feeling at all. Well, I hate to say it, but I am presently in this situation again. Been talking to another guy for about 6 months now, we've talked everyday non stop and even though we have only met up to do things twice so far, hes wanting to go to these festivals and stuff during the holidays. The activities sound great, but I know that he wants a relationship with me (he told me) and hes very much into me, but Im not so much into him. I am very much open to someones company especially during this time of year. Right now, hes pretty much the only person I talk to on a daily basis, I only have one close friend that I talk to, the rest have moved away. So for the most part, I stay in on weekends and dont socialize much with people. Im pretty much a lone wolf when Im out running errands, getting food, etc. Just me, myself and I. Personality wise, nice guy, but I just find that I dont have that spark with him. I dont know what to do...I enjoy talking to him, but I just find that theres no chemistry between us, whether its in person or texting. I dont mind keeping him as a friend, but I know he wants us to date.