An iPhone X owner myself (since launch), with no intention of upgrading my phone for a few years yet, but I was curious to see the XR in the flesh, so called into my local Apple store today to take a look. After reading some of the comments on MacRumors over the past few days, I was expecting to see a phone that had a disappointing screen & which was overly large (with bezels which were too big/ugly)...just shows how misleading comments can be. In the flesh, the XR is a really, really nice phone. The screen looked great & the bezel size is only fractionally larger than the X/XS (unless making a direct side by side comparison, or if unaware of the precise measurements, I doubt most people would even notice that XR had larger bezels than X/XS)
Interestingly, my X is protected in an official Apple Leather case. I placed my X (in case) against the XR & the two were practically the same foot print (XR only very fractionally taller), but the increased screen size on the XR was noticeable. If I was brave enough to use a phone without a case, I think XR would be a great phone for me.
In terms of color, I thought that the White XR with the silver aluminium frame was the nicest XR. Always go for Space Grey myself, but visually, the Silver Aluminium frame on the XR gives the phone a more streamlined look IMO.