I prefer the black bezel around the glossy screen - looks more stylish. The silver bezel looks dated in comparison.
I agree. Apple's new designs sometimes seem weird at first, but I always end up like the newer ones compared to the older ones after a while. The matte 17" looks a bit awkward. Maybe the silver bezel looks too much like an oversized Macbook Air or the colour doesn't match the keyboard or something.
Thanks for posting the pictures by the way. The shots at Apple.com aren't very good.