vniow said:
You sound like you would get along famously with my ex-girlfriend.
probably, i get along with almost all women. I adore them. Some disagree with me, some think i'm a pompous ass and arrogant. Others think i'm enlightened, charming, fun.
But they all agree on one thing, I AM REAL. i don't lie, i don't use cheap tricks to get into women's pants, I live my life the way i like, and they either come for the ride or they don't, some like it and remain in my life, others don't.
in my world there is no such thing as the double standard. i don't care how many people a girl has slept with, that's irrellevent to me.
TO THE GUYS, talking about girls asking them out. Having a girl ask you out is completely something to do with you,
Are you approachable?
Are you fun to be around?
Do you radiate warmth?
"picking up" someone is all about the mating dance.
i know we talk about love, and relationships; but in the end the whole idea of being with someone is sex, well the result of sex.
Yes, sex is fun, it feels great ... but it's purpose is for the result to be an offspring. THAT'S attraction.
you can't fight instinct, that's something you've been born with. sure we have social conditioning --- but in the end instinct wins.
why do great girls date jerks? cause they have strong traits and strong qualities that are desirable to be passed on.
guys get asked out all the time ... tonight i went out with a girl for coffee that asked me out.
this happens, happens to me, happens to my friends.
my experience in dating is only hetero, homosexual dating is foreign to me so if you are gay and disagree with me, remember, i'm talking hetero.
Women expect a men to be a men; strong, they need to feel like you will go after what you want, and you will succeed so that you can provide.
equality just means that we need to respect each other ...
equal pay? sure
equal job oppertunites? sure
equal basic human rights? sure
BUT we are not the same, the reason we need to respect each other is because we are different, and we need to feed off of each other, we need each other to compliment the strengths and weaknesses.
guys, stop hiding behind your walls of equality and go out and stop being afraid to be a man.