Equal CPU performance and equal graphics performance? You mentioned a Microsoft surface, these don't even come close in terms of CPU and graphics performance (and the thermals are nowhere near as good either, so they wouldn't support the same performance that a MacBook Pro could, the Surface simply isn't designed for the same kind of use case). If we're talking about displays, yes someone who wants a really nice display isn't going to get a thinkpad, and yet millions and millions of thinkpads are sold to professionals anyway. Not everyone has the same criteria, and that's the point that I've been trying to make.I’m not “stacking the deck” by not comparing the MacBook Pro to other windows laptops with lesser specs on nearly every point. That wouldn’t be a fair comparison. I’m trying to find Windows laptops that have mostly equal specs to the MacBook Pro, such as close or equal CPU performance, close or equal graphics performance, close or equal display quality, close or equal build-quality, etc. That’s not “ignoring” the other options, I’ve said several times now that they exist, they’re just not very comparable because they’re not even close to equal on most of the specs. Again, that doesn’t mean that they aren’t good options, it just means that they’re not comparable enough to the same specs to offer a fair alternative for people who want all or even most of the benefits of a MacBook Pro. I’ve looked at lots of Windows laptops at this point, none of which I’m actually interested in buying, and every one of them I’ve been able to find that’s mostly comparable specs-wise is also charging about the same, the same, or more for RAM upgrades. And as I explained before, I think that’s because typically the high-performance models seem to use soldered RAM just like Apple does, and so they charge more for upgrades. Laptops with user-upgradeable RAM cards don’t tend to charge as much for RAM upgrades, but also don’t tend to be close to the MacBook Pros specs in many key areas such as display quality, CPU performance, graphics performance, etc. Again, I’m looking for Windows laptops that are as close as possible in specs to the MacBook Pro I’m comparing them to, not just any Windows laptop.
You can't artificially narrow down the criteria such that only a small selection of computers passes that criteria, imply that these are the computers that are "equivalent in these areas" - then use that to support the claim that the PC market at large is charging more for RAM than Apple is. You've ignored countless examples of computers that aren't charging these same prices.