I have a 2011 13" MBP, I went with the i7 then upgraded everything myself. Hard drive and Ram. First from 4gb to 8gb($80) then 8gb to 16gb($80 6 months later). Since you can't replace this on the new rMPBs, and see it as a long term investment get the 16gb.
Get at much ram as you can afford - end of story. If you are getting a Pro you will need it - if not get an air. the SSD really is the speed/game changer here. More apps - the retina display - all that will start to chew ram over the next few years. Hell try to push 4 displays they are claiming with 4gb ram lol.
I do run VM's on mine, most of you will not. But I noticed that each time that I put more RAM in, OSX was not shy about taking more of it up!! Finance that extra 180$!!
Get at much ram as you can afford - end of story. If you are getting a Pro you will need it - if not get an air. the SSD really is the speed/game changer here. More apps - the retina display - all that will start to chew ram over the next few years. Hell try to push 4 displays they are claiming with 4gb ram lol.
I do run VM's on mine, most of you will not. But I noticed that each time that I put more RAM in, OSX was not shy about taking more of it up!! Finance that extra 180$!!