Yes. Apple does charge a premium for it's products over say Dell. However I have no problem paying it. Here's why:
In this day and age, it seems like every corporation I deal with goes out of their way to be frustrating or unfair. For example, when I bought CS2 years ago from Adobe, they would not talk to me over the phone 2 months later without charging me $50 to fix a problem because cs3 had just come out.
Here are my experiences with Apple. My fiancé was having a problem getting spore to run on her MBP and I had spent hours dealing with it and had gotten no where. I was so frustrated we showed up at the apple store with no appointment that day hoping for some help. The first thing the did was took her disk,which she had bought at Best Buy years ago, and gave her the newer version shrink-wrapped off the shelf, no questions asked. The they let us hang out there while it installed for an hour to make sure it worked.
Another experience. We had just gotten iPhones and every time she sinked, she got some weird error and I didn't have time to look at it. So she to it to an Apple store. The error was because she didn't have iPhoto installed for whatever reason. So they actually gave her a free copy of the entire iLife suite as an apology for her frustration and fixed her problem.
Yes, a base model Apple laptop will cost you more than an "equivalent" Dell. However, you get what you pay for. And you know what, if you don't want to pay full retail price there'd is always refurb and eBay used.
The fact is, those are my experiences with Apple. We all make life decisions based on past experiences. If someone else does not like Apple products, that is their own choice.
Apple's philosophy may not be to try to be the first company to support multiple tasking on their phones, or the first ones to have the i core Chips in their notebooks. But they do try to make sure you have the bested user experience.
They are not blocking Flash on these devices for no reason. The fact is, Flash is VERY buggy and it would kill battery life. So it would destroy the end user experience. The problem is not Apple. If Adobe wants it supported, they need to get it fixed.