I switched from Android to a Max just recently. It's a mix of good and bad.
I'm pleased with face unlock. It's almost at the level of "magic" that Apple strives for.
Sometimes I'm shocked at how counter-intuitive some functions are. Sure, it's easy once you know how to do something, but the discoverability is too often abysmal. I had tried an X when it first came out and was utterly baffled by the weird little indicator that wanted me to press the power button to approve a download from the app store (I think that's what it was). I kept trying to swipe it! They at least saw that as a problem and now provide more discoverability assistance ("press the button, dummy!").
I'm also shocked at how plain and ugly so many screens are. Just a totally plain list of text, frequently. And the home screen is just an array of icons. Nothing else to do (no widgets, etc.), and you can't necessarily place icons where you want, etc. Boring.
Then there's how awful the user interface is at times. How do I go back? Hmm. Nothing. Oh, wait, I see it: There's an itty-bitty snip of tiny little text way up in the top-left corner (the hardest to reach if you are right handed), if it's there at all.
Broken apps every time they change the screen resolution, size or aspect ratio. You have choice: Horribly blurry older apps designed for low-resolution screens, apps with weird blank areas stuck in their middle, and so on.
Friction vs. no friction: There are some things that Apple REALLY wants you to use (Siri, the cloud, etc). No friction! Click a button or something and boom, you are in. Getting OUT is a different story. Oh, sure, that can probably be undone in the settings ... somewhere, but with no path provided to direct you to it from within the app or function.
Then there are things that Apple does NOT want you to do. For that there is often an absurd level of friction: Go down some huge list tapping, tapping, tapping multiple times on every single item to turn something off individually, one at a time. The granularity is good, but being able to set defaults for everything at once is often lacking.
I am also vaguely irritated by the way that all apps resume from where they left off even if they are "closed" (ha!). This sounds good in principle, but often (e.g. web browsers), no, I don't want that.
Of course, Android is guilty of much of this too, and in some cases it's worse. But Android's latest versions are generally much more attractive and frequently easier to use, and that's with a lot more flexibility and customization. Apple is falling well behind in many respects.
Anyway, I switched to an iPhone mostly for the purportedly higher level of privacy. I'm committed to the change now and have mostly adjusted.