Any heteros here?

[dcv]

I'd like to pose a new question, something that has surfaced for me recently:

What is the greatest or least age that you would consider dating? (perhaps relative to your age, perhaps not)

I have dated men both 6 years younger and 7 years older than me (not at the same time obviously!). Older guys seem to be looking for "the one" with whom to settle down and have kids.....not my sort of thing. Younger men are more fun

I don't think age should really be an issue as long as you share a similar maturity and interests.

 

[sushi]

C is quite big, isn't it, unless we start talking artificial?

My HS girlfriend had D+ size. Dated some women with bigger. One I could not even get my hands around her. She was huge. She had a tiny waist. With age, I am sure that would change.

Ref my HS girlfriend. Hard for her to keep them in place when running. Had to have a very strong athletic bra.

But someday, her belt will be holding them up. Of that I am sure.

After being her in Japan for a while, I have turned to more of a leg and tush man. Lot's of good ones.

Sushi

 

[efoto]

<snip>
To this he said, "God's greatest gift to man is the C cup. Someday you will be with a girl with big boobs and you will understand."
My experience since then has proven him wrong. God's greatest gift to man is the D cup.

Last line is quite humorous, thank you.

I have dated men both 6 years younger and 7 years older than me (not at the same time obviously!). Older guys seem to be looking for "the one" with whom to settle down and have kids.....not my sort of thing. Younger men are more fun

I don't think age should really be an issue as long as you share a similar maturity and interests.

For part a of my question I agree. My most successful relationship was with a girl 6 years my elder and it was lovely.
Part b though, more of a friendly relationship focused on less endurance and more action has its limits I think. Being 21 I was curious what the eldest age I should do would be....theoretically of course

 

[sushi]

I don't think age should really be an issue as long as you share a similar maturity and interests.

Totally agree.

Dated much older and much younger women over my lifetime from around the world. Learned a lot through some great experiences.

Luckily I ended up with a wonderful lady. She is older than me.

Sushi

 

[dcv]

Being 21 I was curious what the eldest age I should do would be....theoretically of course

Only YOU can decide that one!


"any woman can have the body of a 21 year old... as long as you buy him a couple of drinks first"

 

[efoto]

Only YOU can decide that one!


"any woman can have the body of a 21 year old... as long as you buy him a couple of drinks first"

True true, I just like fishing for approval, especially for reasons like this. There is a las at work whose friends approached me (not because she asked, they just did on their own will) and hinted at a few things to see if I might be interested. The lady in question is a single (never married) 3x year old "still in her 30's, barely" which is what the real struggle is. It is funny how numbers can mess with you, or at least me, because 36 doesn't sound that bad but 38 does

Edit: Don't you 38 year olds take offense to that, remember this is coming from a 21 year old male so that should cheapen it....plus on the upswing I thought you were hot 2 years ago

 

[sushi]

True true, I just like fishing for approval, especially for reasons like this. There is a las at work whose friends approached me (not because she asked, they just did on their own will) and hinted at a few things to see if I might be interested. The lady in question is a single (never married) 3x year old "still in her 30's, barely" which is what the real struggle is. It is funny how numbers can mess with you, or at least me, because 36 doesn't sound that bad but 38 does

Edit: Don't you 38 year olds take offense to that, remember this is coming from a 21 year old male so that should cheapen it....plus on the upswing I thought you were hot 2 years ago

Hell, 36 is young!

Wish I could be there again.

Age is not all that important. So many other things are much more important for a great relationship.

However, I understand where you are coming from. When you are 21, 30 is getting old. 40 is old. 50 is ancient. What is really interesting is how this age perspective naturally changes as you grow older.

...and how what is important changes as well.

I had an aunt who had to have a strong belt to keep her boobs in place. When I saw her HS photo, she was stacked. Beautiful lady with big perky breasts. Well, at 60, she was still attractive for her age, but her boobs battled gravity and had lost big time.

Big boobs are great when a woman is young. But as they age, they go South in a hurry.

Sushi

 

[takao]

personally for age i would put a complete maximum of 30 with a more realistic one at 25 or 26 .. i turned 22 this summer

for minimum age i would say 18-19

no offense to the 30+ crowd


about the cup sizes: the differences are not big between US,UK european,french,italian, international etc. so i was confused about the stated Uk averages as well... they seem pretty high i would rather have guessed B-C as the best selling ones

 

[wdlove]

Totally agree.

Dated much older and much younger women over my lifetime from around the world. Learned a lot through some great experiences.

Luckily I ended up with a wonderful lady. She is older than me.

Sushi

My wife is two years older than me. Age really doesn't make any difference.

Breast size don't really matter that much either. Don't really care for the extra large size though. I think surgery is a bad idea. Personality is much more important.

 

[TheMonarch]

I'm not too keen on the idea of fake boobs. Think about it in the long run, do we really like the Idea of an 88 year-old with perky boobs?
I'm not...

 

[efoto]

I'm not too keen on the idea of fake boobs. Think about it in the long run, do we really like the Idea of an 88 year-old with perky boobs?
I'm not...

All plastic surgery should be halted instantly, even mid-ops. After a comment like that, well, there is obviously no other choice

 

[devilot]

I'm not too keen on the idea of fake boobs. Think about it in the long run, do we really like the Idea of an 88 year-old with perky boobs?
I'm not...

Geeze... damned if we do, damned if we don't! Old saggy breasts= no-no's, old perky breasts= no-no's. Psh. What about men's saggy sacs?!!!

 

[Mike Teezie]

Geeze... damned if we do, damned if we don't! Old saggy breasts= no-no's, old perky breasts= no-no's. Psh. What about men's saggy sacs?!!!

Hey, you'll get no complaints from me about fake boobs. I have no problem with them at all.

As for older ladies, my friends and I all went out to a restaurant the other night, and sat up at the bar to get drinks.

I saw a friend of mine's mom in there. She has always been really, really hot to me. She bought me a few drinks, even though I tried and tried to politely refuse. After glass of Merlot #2, she started hitting on me pretty intensely, being pretty suggestive. I had to leave that scene to go meet up with my girlfriend and her friends.

I asked my friends if they thought it seemed like she was hitting on me, and they cursed me for still talking to them - thinking I should be on the way home with the lady.

Damn my Irish luck, and my unshakable faithfulness. Why couldn't that have happened before I met my girlfriend?

 

[efoto]

Geeze... damned if we do, damned if we don't! Old saggy breasts= no-no's, old perky breasts= no-no's. Psh. What about men's saggy sacs?!!!

Our sacs are always saggy, so there is no change with age, or little documented change. When you take something at chest level and slowly move it to waist level, it is bound to get noticed. When you take something from inches below penis to inches below penis +.64" you hardly notice

Basically, women were meant to attract early on and then once you have tied the knot you are stuck....men were meant to stay constant. What I deduct from that is that women are actually the luckier gender because what they see is what they get for years to come We men are forced to be patient and understanding and put up with gravitationally influenced changes that our lovely women experience over time. Whoa is me, whoa is man

 

[gekko513]

Wow, efoto, you don't pay much attention to how men look, do you?

 

[efoto]

Wow, efoto, you don't pay much attention to how men look, do you?

what can I say? Not really, no, not at all....you get the idea.

I actually pay more attention than most I would dare say. I just thought I would poke a little fun at the aged lack of poke , of course the last statement applying more to men than women really.

 

[devilot]

What I deduct from that is that women are actually the luckier gender because what they see is what they get for years to come

*snort* Have you turned on the TV lately? What about all the gorgeous looking women on all those sitcoms w/ pot-bellied/ beer gut, balding men for husbands?!

Psh. Balding. Receding hairlines. Rapidly expanding guts. REAL sexy in a man.

 

[TheMonarch]

We don't mean to anger you

 

[wdlove]

Geeze... damned if we do, damned if we don't! Old saggy breasts= no-no's, old perky breasts= no-no's. Psh. What about men's saggy sacs?!!!

It's all just a part of aging. That is why personality is so important. Best to not marry for the body. Either way breasts are important. I do think that surgery done for reconstruction purposes after cancer surgery is alright. Exactly what saggy sacks on men are you referring to devilot76?

 

[devilot]

We don't mean to anger you

*Sigh* No, it's not all of you... I suppose it's just the way things are.

It's all just a part of aging. That is why personality is so important. Best to not marry for the body.

Yes but it just feels so unfair... Women are deemed more attractive w/ larger breasts. Those look fantastic at a younger age but tend to sag w/ age... those w/ smaller breasts can just suck it up and be not-as-attractive in their younger age but 'luck out' in their older age. Or they can opt for surgery in which case they will still get slammed by people who are against surgery.

And what I feel to be the most frustrating part is that men tend to be considered attractive until a much older age than women.

Bother that.

 

[efoto]

*snort* Have you turned on the TV lately? What about all the gorgeous looking women on all those sitcoms w/ pot-bellied/ beer gut, balding men for husbands?!

Psh. Balding. Receding hairlines. Rapidly expanding guts. REAL sexy in a man.

I thought we talked about the balding/receding hairline in another thread de, now I'm hurt because you brought it up again (if there was a tear icon you would be seeing it).

Oh, and on those sitcoms, well obviously the hot older women would have hot older men for husbands, it is an equality equation where the middle is always = and never < or > Guts can be worked on so I agree with that part. As long as you stay hot, I'll stay hot....seems like a fair arrangement.

 

[TheMonarch]

...Exactly what saggy sacks on men are you referring to devilot76?

All of us on a hot day?


I can't believe I just said that...

 

[devilot]

I thought we talked about the balding/receding hairline in another thread de, now I'm hurt because you brought it up again (if there was a tear icon you would be seeing it).

Boo hoo, one sensitive spot, eh?

Oh, and on those sitcoms, well obviously the hot older women would have hot older men for husbands, it is an equality equation where the middle is always = and never < or > Guts can be worked on so I agree with that part. As long as you stay hot, I'll stay hot....seems like a fair arrangement.

But these sitcoms are not featuring spouses of 'equal hotness' per se. Seriously, go take a look!

And that argument isn't fair at all. Not if the woman is expected to get pregnant, give birth, and still be expected to go back to her former glory?! Get real! Not to mention, women's bodies naturally hold onto more fat than men...

 

[DeepIn2U]

After being her in Japan for a while, I have turned to more of a leg and tush man. Lot's of good ones.

Sushi

LMAO, this from a man with an online name like Sushi ... I love Sushi & legs too my friend .

<snip>
To this he said, "God's greatest gift to man is the C cup. Someday you will be with a girl with big boobs and you will understand."
My experience since then has proven him wrong. God's greatest gift to man is the D cup.

Wrong you are there, for 2 reasons. I used to date a girl in college and with what looked like awesome breasts in a bra - D cup - when that shirt & bra came off the first time ... (well I was desperate at the time so forgive me) well anorexic (spelt wrong I know) women dont please in this area. Come to think of it, someone I knew dated her best friend whom was beliemic. With either disorder and huge breasts you'll come to understand our humor of "granny tits"! Imagine a hardball in long tub socks .... pay close attention in your imagination to the vertical lines of the tub socks and you'll realize my horror and gratitude for a dark room when that bra came off.


Heterosexual guys; the more experienced of us ... correct me if I'm wrong, but isnt it true that the smaller the breast is the hornier a woman is, or more experimental in bed?? At least in my past it was.

Growing up watching Wonder Woman when I was 5; along with Gilligan's Island, I've always loved young to middle aged women with athletic or slim figures. Yummy.

Maturity is a figment of the beholders imagination. You can have a very mature kid that almost seems alien to other his/her age; and thus alienated. You can be very mature & skilled linguistically and come off as a snob at social events. You could be a fun person; almost seemingly being a clown, but at business functions or on dates and just be well behaved. The youth or your soul counts the most in every year of your life, and how you conduct yourself at any event will determine how others judge you. Even though we, they shouldnt. When it comes to long term relationships, we all seek someone compatible in many areas, even to compliment our weaknesses, BUT you'd be amazed how subconciously we pick a feature in someone that we cant stand at sometimes, and barely tollerate at most.

 

[sushi]

My wife is two years older than me. Age really doesn't make any difference.

Great minds think/act alike!

Breast size don't really matter that much either. Don't really care for the extra large size though. I think surgery is a bad idea. Personality is much more important.

Yep.

I think surgery is a bad idea.

I still don't see why women do it to make themselves bigger when it looks so fake. And the feeling is terrible -- although technology has provided for some improvement!

Personality is much more important.

So very true.

They have a saying here in Japan...

Marry a beautiful woman and you are tired of her in three days.

Marry an ungly woman and you get used to her in three days.

While not the most romantic of sayings, there is a whole lot of truth in it.

Sushi