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Macaddicttt said:Now to bring it back on topic...
I find small breasts much more attractive than larger ones. I mean, there has to be something there, but I enjoy the smaller ones. Say, B-ish, I guess. I don't really know bra sizes since I don't exactly go perusing that section of the store...
Now here's an interesting question, why are men attracted to breasts? Some say that it's just a biological function because nice breasts = good milk for my children. But then that doesn't really explain why different men are attracted to different types of breasts. If the milk thing was the explanation, wouldn't all men go after the biggest breasts they see?
Sorry, didn't mean to offend you Macaddicttt....I am definitely proud to be a Christian, I just know so many that don't follow the Bible that I chose to use a different term. Hopefully you know what I mean.
dietcokevanilla said:LMAO!!!!
Edit: My 500th post and this is it
(now what the hell do i choose as an avatar?)
Not a graphic portrayal of the above...
That's what I've been asking my guy friends... since technically they're just lumps of fat and no other mammals really have protruding breasts either. And their answer is always: "Erm... I don't know... They're soft, nice and warm, I guess..." I don't know, lots of my female friends wants to have a breast reduction even though they're not that big... Like Melissa, she said: "I'm grateful for all I have but sometimes I just want it reduced, it's rather hard talking when they keep staring"
but of course Melissa is a ballet student, they are not usually extend anywhere above a B, do they? I also have this friend, she's a double D and she's about 5'3... it just looks so uncomfortable... She also has a hard time running... I think breasts anywhere near C is large... Some clothes just look better with people with small chest...
Back to preferences... Somehow I always fall for the Joshes...
They're so similar too... strawberry blond, blue eyed, athletic, funny and good at some sort of art... the Eric/Eriks are good too... [I'm not picking guys base on names but it just happens that those are the guys I fall for ] Or the cool, silent and composed type... I guess it's because I'm so childish... Need somethign to balance that out 
i have a friend named erik, can i get your number for him?
asking why guys like boobs is silly. why do guys like butts? legs? stomachs? _____? why do girls like any of the above? it's something that just attracts us. same could be asked why we like men/women in general. i don't know! i just do!
asking why guys like boobs is silly. why do guys like butts? legs? stomachs? _____? why do girls like any of the above? it's something that just attracts us. same could be asked why we like men/women in general. i don't know! i just do!
jelloshotsrule said:
Mark this day as the day when iStalker was first launched
The easiest way to haunt a girl's dreams from your Mac. Only $119.95, overpriced like everything else
surely there have been iStalkings for long before now.
why do you think chat rooms were invented?!
why do you think chat rooms were invented?!
crdean1 said:
Very happy to meet you crdean. I'm a Christian also. I've been married for 33 years. I wasn't a Christian then, but she was my first also.
Our Senior Pastor has commented that Sex is better. Christ first loved us so that we love others
Yes, have a similar experience. I can say that sex is still awesome. So you have a lot to look forward to in the future.
wdlove said:Yes, have a similar experience. I can say that sex is still awesome. So you have a lot to look forward to in the future.
you GO wd.
and i agree that it's going to be based on a real emotional connection. if you aren't connecting with the person emotionally after 2, 5, 10, 20 years... then things will go south in the physical dept too
or, NOT go south.
jelloshotsrule said:you GO wd.
and i agree that it's going to be based on a real emotional connection. if you aren't connecting with the person emotionally after 2, 5, 10, 20 years... then things will go south in the physical dept too
or, NOT go south.
You always have such a delicate way of putting things jello
Off topic: Non-native English speaker question. What are the directional expressions for "not going very well" in English. Is it things will go south? And what do you mean by NOT go south?jelloshotsrule said:
In Norwegian we use, literally translated, "straight west", "down-around and home" or "north and down" for "not going very well".
Please note that we do not use the expression over here. I'll defer to the users of that curious "US English" dialect. I'm not very big on patois.gekko513 said:
gekko513 said:
It's "things will go south," or something is "down." Down's definition is something moving to a lower place or position, so that explains why we use down, and since south is down, we use south.
I don't know if that's really the reason, but it makes some sense.
And when I think he said "NOT go south" he was making a reference to the sexual organs that are relatively "south" so things won't be going on down there (hey, there's the down again!).
-Chase
dietcokevanilla said:I have dated men both 6 years younger and 7 years older than me (not at the same time obviously!). Older guys seem to be looking for "the one" with whom to settle down and have kids.....not my sort of thing. Younger men are more fun
I don't think age should really be an issue as long as you share a similar maturity and interests.
A bit of a paradox there perhaps. Given "maturity and interests"; an older guy could be an option. Yes, us older guys are looking to settle down, but is that a bad thing? Keep in mind being Gay, kids are not an easy option.
efoto said:True true, I just like fishing for approval, especially for reasons like this. There is a las at work whose friends approached me (not because she asked, they just did on their own will) and hinted at a few things to see if I might be interested. The lady in question is a single (never married) 3x year old "still in her 30's, barely" which is what the real struggle is. It is funny how numbers can mess with you, or at least me, because 36 doesn't sound that bad but 38 does
Edit: Don't you 38 year olds take offense to that, remember this is coming from a 21 year old male so that should cheapen it....plus on the upswing I thought you were hot 2 years ago
If a Straight friend of mine is any indication, age only matters to others. He is 25, and dating a woman that is 45 (and if I can say, looks 55). But they found a connection. They are both on the same financial footing, so neither are looking to "cash-in".
devilot76 said:*snort* Have you turned on the TV lately? What about all the gorgeous looking women on all those sitcoms w/ pot-bellied/ beer gut, balding men for husbands?!
Psh. Balding. Receding hairlines. Rapidly expanding guts. REAL sexy in a man.
Given your age, I will cut some slack here.
The problem IMO is that we are drawn to that "perfect ideal" of our mate. I know I am.
At the same point I look at my past "loves"; and realize that there may have been "opportunities" for a long term relationship; only cut short by my shallowness
That is why it's very important to not focus on appearance. IMHO personality and interests are of primary importance. Never really date a quote beautiful girl. A beautiful girl would just be cause for more concern.
I don't think that age really matters that much as we get older. Wish you well in finding a mate for life.
I don't think that age really matters that much as we get older. Wish you well in finding a mate for life.
I was under the impression that we were talking about appearances for people we just happen to see. Oh well, at least that's how I was going about it. Trust me, I go for personality over looks-- I have really been w/ um, quite unattractive people but it was okay because I really liked their 'then' personalities.