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Any heteros here?

Prom1 said:
Heterosexual guys; the more experienced of us ... correct me if I'm wrong, but isnt it true that the smaller the breast is the hornier a woman is, or more experimental in bed?? At least in my past it was.
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I doubt this is a rule, however I can only comment with a somewhat small sample size and agree with you. Since my sample size is less than some, it's hard to tell for sure but the smaller ones did seem to ask a lot more :D

devilot76 said:
Boo hoo, one sensitive spot, eh?
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Nice pun :p

But these sitcoms are not featuring spouses of 'equal hotness' per se. Seriously, go take a look!

And that argument isn't fair at all. Not if the woman is expected to get pregnant, give birth, and still be expected to go back to her former glory?! Get real! :mad: Not to mention, women's bodies naturally hold onto more fat than men...
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I agree there are more natural factors fatiguing the female frame, but still, if I can bust my a** in a gym than so can she. I realize the female body is created to store more fat, I'm fine with that. I'm not asking for a stick here, just a fit and healthy individual. I love food, I love health, and I love the human body, but all things in moderation I suppose. I would never push fitness on a woman, but I would hope that the woman I find to spend time with enjoys it with me and we can do it together. I have found working out with your significant other can be quite relationally building and one of the best motivators out there....not to mention the side benefit of you both seeing nicely shiny muscles and the endorphins are nice and high when you get home ;) ;)
 
What color hair do you guys like? Me, redheads, and brown... Hot.... Not that I limit myself to them only, I like all kinds...
 
devilot76 said:
There are parallels to breasts on women as the most protruding sex 'organ' as a penis is a man's... and so come now, it is the most conspicuous way to emphasize one's sexuality, one's attractiveness per se.

Plus, a lot of people don't feel the need for bigger (as better)-- but ask anyone who is considered 'smaller than avg,' and deep down there are feelings of inadequacy. At least those stick-thin, waify types can claim their <7% body fat as the reason for having little to no boobage, but what about the rest of us smaller-breasted women? :(
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Sssh. Don't tell anyone, but smaller-breasted women absolutely rev my motor.
 
I'm a 25 year old hetero guy. I think that women in their early 30s look the best. Sure, women my age can look really hot, but there's some sort of fully realised beauty that sets in in their 30s. Thinking about this now, it makes me happy to realise that if I marry someone my own age, then our best years are still ahead of us.
 
blaskillet4 said:
What color hair do you guys like? Me, redheads, and brown... Hot.... Not that I limit myself to them only, I like all kinds...
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Readheads at times, but they are commonly quite pale and I prefer a little darker skin tone, but not overly baked. I really like some of the ideas that blondes give me, but I truly am a sucker for gorgeous dark hair....so I'm a brunette man. Beggars can't be choosers though, so I'll take whatever :rolleyes:

I actually look quite a lot at hair and teeth because I think they show you if the person takes care of themselves or not.
 
efoto said:
I actually look quite a lot at hair and teeth because I think they show you if the person takes care of themselves or not.
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Haha, that reminds me... I took a class once called Fem-sex (dealing w/ female sexuality) and one of my classmates, an African-American woman went to Atlanta for a weekend and came back w/ an interesting bit to tell us. She couldn't help but to notice that whilst there, it felt like every African American male was talking to her feet as opposed to her face. Finally she broke down and asked someone if all of Atlanta had a foot fetish; the man replied, "Well, if a sista' takes the time to keep her toe nails lookin' fine, then ya can count on her keepin' everythin' else clean an' trimmed." Heh. Okay, n/m her story was a lot more amusing in a classroom atmosphere w/ her imitating the guy's drawl. *Sigh*
 
MarkCollette said:
I'm a 25 year old hetero guy. I think that women in their early 30s look the best. Sure, women my age can look really hot, but there's some sort of fully realised beauty that sets in in their 30s.
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i'm loving this guy :D
 
devilot76 said:
Haha, that reminds me... I took a class once called Fem-sex (dealing w/ female sexuality) and one of my classmates, an African-American woman went to Atlanta for a weekend and came back w/ an interesting bit to tell us. She couldn't help but to notice that whilst there, it felt like every African American male was talking to her feet as opposed to her face. Finally she broke down and asked someone if all of Atlanta had a foot fetish; the man replied, "Well, if a sista' takes the time to keep her toe nails lookin' fine, then ya can count on her keepin' everythin' else clean an' trimmed." Heh. Okay, n/m her story was a lot more amusing in a classroom atmosphere w/ her imitating the guy's drawl. *Sigh*
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Still entertaining in an online forum atmosphere with my mental-drawl in effect :)

Hair, teeth, nails, etc are all little keys to general maintenance and hygiene in my book. Problem being, sometimes they can also be red flags to extremely high maintenance (overdone hairdos, crazy nails). Oh well, we all have our quirks I suppose. I try to keep my teeth clean, my clothes clean, and my car clean (inside and out ;) ) all for me. If she happens to notice that's great, and if not I'm not out anything.
 
devilot76 said:
But these sitcoms are not featuring spouses of 'equal hotness' per se. Seriously, go take a look!
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you obviously haven't seen "the war at home". michael rappaport is HOT

grrrrrrrrrrrrr

oh, and wdlove asking about saggy sacks was the best line i've ever seen
 
Prom1 said:
Heterosexual guys; the more experienced of us ... correct me if I'm wrong, but isnt it true that the smaller the breast is the hornier a woman is, or more experimental in bed?? At least in my past it was.
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efoto said:
I doubt this is a rule, however I can only comment with a somewhat small sample size and agree with you. Since my sample size is less than some, it's hard to tell for sure but the smaller ones did seem to ask a lot more
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I had the exact opposite experience. Bigger boobs = better time more often. One caveat to that is that when a girl has large breasts you have to know what to do with them because most guys don't. If you treat one of these girls right, she will be super greatful.

As far as the age+gravity thing, my take is that what you get while its fresh is well worth what comes later. Its not like they stop being fun because they point a different direction.
I'd rather have steak for a week than bacon for a month, but again, to each his own.

Applespider said:
Big boobs look bigger still on short women since the hourglass is more defined than on long-waisted tall women. But yeah, I'm below average on the height factor (5'3") and way above average on the boobs (tho only a 32-34" band)... so I kinda agree! Never had any complaints on that front though
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I can say this because you are on the other side of the Atlantic "grrrrrrr!"
 
I'm Hetero.

As far as the sex thing, my wife and I waited until we got married as we are both Christ followers.

We have been married for 6 years now, and sex has gotten better each year. Just when you think it can't get any better, it does.

Anyway, my two cents. Any similar experiences.

BTW - I'm 30, and she's 29.

CRD
 
crdean1 said:
I'm Hetero.

As far as the sex thing, my wife and I waited until we got married as we are both Christ followers.

We have been married for 6 years now, and sex has gotten better each year. Just when you think it can't get any better, it does.

Anyway, my two cents. Any similar experiences.

BTW - I'm 30, and she's 29.

CRD
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Is it just me or does "Christ followers" sound strange in comparison to "Christians"?? :confused: Not sure why, just sounded really weird when I read that. I'm not against it or anything, it just caught me off guard somehow....
 
efoto said:
Is it just me or does "Christ followers" sound strange in comparison to "Christians"?? :confused: Not sure why, just sounded really weird when I read that. I'm not against it or anything, it just caught me off guard somehow....
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Oh, sorry. I guess Christians would be more appropriate. We attend a Southern Baptist Church. But I have started to say Christ follower because Christian, Baptist, etc. don't really tell you specifically what someone believes these days, unfortunately.

I guess I was trying to say that we follow the teachings of Jesus Christ, therefore our decisions were made not to have sex before marriage due to those beliefs. (probably belongs in the politics and religion forum)

To stay on topic, being a hetero thread and all, I was wondering if anyone had had the same experiences. (Not had sex before marriage, then sex getting better every year.)

In my experience it has been opposite from what I had heard, you know, that sex is better when you are young, it just becomes humdrum after several years of marriage.
 
I'd have to say that 51-year-old 5'9" ex-ballerinas with fighting spirit and an Irish/Jewish/Portuguese/Serbian bloodline are the best. But then again, maybe I'm biased.
 
jelloshotsrule said:
what do you two do to keep mixing it up and keep things fresh? how freaky do you cats get? grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ;)
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If you are talking to me, that's just it. I wouldn't say we have felt the need to "mix it up". I wouldn't even say that we are real freaky. It just gets better and better. Maybe it is because we have grown so much closer and have gone through more things together, etc. Maybe that has made us more into eachother.
 
crdean1 said:
Oh, sorry. I guess Christians would be more appropriate. We attend a Southern Baptist Church. But I have started to say Christ follower because Christian, Baptist, etc. don't really tell you specifically what someone believes these days, unfortunately.

I guess I was trying to say that we follow the teachings of Jesus Christ, therefore our decisions were made not to have sex before marriage due to those beliefs. (probably belongs in the politics and religion forum)
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I don't want to be rude, but I think that explanation for saying "Christ follower" is a little rude. You won't find a Christian who doesn't believe he's following the teachings of Christ. The reason the other labels exist (i.e. Baptist, Catholic, Lutheran, etc.) is because they are names for the different interpretations of Christ's teachings. Sorry to bring this discussion off topic, but I just wanted to point out that you might offend some people with that sort of talk.

Now to bring it back on topic... :D

I find small breasts much more attractive than larger ones. I mean, there has to be something there, but I enjoy the smaller ones. Say, B-ish, I guess. I don't really know bra sizes since I don't exactly go perusing that section of the store...

Now here's an interesting question, why are men attracted to breasts? Some say that it's just a biological function because nice breasts = good milk for my children. But then that doesn't really explain why different men are attracted to different types of breasts. If the milk thing was the explanation, wouldn't all men go after the biggest breasts they see?
 
crdean1 said:
To stay on topic, being a hetero thread and all, I was wondering if anyone had had the same experiences. (Not had sex before marriage, then sex getting better every year.)

In my experience it has been opposite from what I had heard, you know, that sex is better when you are young, it just becomes humdrum after several years of marriage.
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It was great before and after. No humdrums here.
 
crdean1 said:
In my experience it has been opposite from what I had heard, you know, that sex is better when you are young, it just becomes humdrum after several years of marriage.
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If you are on the same wavelength as your partner, it does get better as you go. If not, well then you just get bored. The emotional bond is more important than most people think.
 
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