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You can't have It both ways-if you want true freedom of speech/expression, you have to be prepared to hear the other side as well.

Ah, the old "I'm not a bigot, you hating bigoted people makes you the real bigot" argument. There really should be a name for that now as it gets used enough.
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don't really care either way, just innovate and stop with the social issue BS. Im tried of it. I could care less what you are, the color you are, and who you like. its annoying as hell.

Let's stop awareness campaigns in this social age because Blacktape242 is tired of them.

(pssst. You being the superhero saviour you are might be totally fine with people of different colours and backgrounds - many aren't. I think it's great that one of the most known companies in the world engages in progressive movements like this. Anything to make the world a little better)
 
Because pride in the face of struggle makes coping easier for some. Heterosexual people DO NOT face discirmation because of their sexuality. There is no fear of "Will my family accept me, or will I get kicked out" "Will I get assaulted for my sexuality" etc.



This is plain stupid. Equality should be achieved in basic areas. People can not choose their sexuality, so why should discrimination exist for people who can not change the thing that causes them to be discriminated against.

You sound like an uncaring person who can not imagine themselves in another's shoes. I'm guessing for you the high rates of mental illness and suicide amongst LGBT teens because of the sort of struggles they face coming to grips with their sexuality does not matter to you.


I don't agree with homosexual and frankly I think homosexuality is disgusting... Though, I don't discriminate them and I will respect each individual as human being.

That's being said, just because they face some discrimination, doesn't mean they need to public and yelling to everyone they are guy. And to be homosexual is nothing to be proud of, it is outside of social norm. If someone is homosexual, just be homosexual, you don't need tell everyone homosexual. Hetrosexual couples don't force homosexual accept their sexual orientation, however, it seems homosexual people always wants heterosexual people accept homosexuality and if you don't agree, then you are discriminatory and not politically correct.

Once again, if someone is member of LGBT, keep it private. No need tell the world that you are gay. Being homosexual isn't something like get Olympic champion.
 
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While I understand that you cannot "prove" an onus (there is no God), to dismiss one outright is premature.

Thus, while you are an atheist, you still have faith. You merely place that faith in someone other than a known religious figure (yourself, Darwin, the science researcher for a particular field, etc).

Not everyone tests every bit of information first-hand. We ALL work off of someones word. Granted, some things are easy to reproduce results for. Others not so much. In religious circles this is called witnessing for a reason: "I saw this happen". Perhaps the reason why you couldn't believe is because you need proof first. You have to take someone's word before you can commit to a path.

Only God can show you He's real. And He'll show you in a way you will KNOW, but you can't prove to those who dismiss it outright.

All that said, it is sad that the mistreatment of homosexual individuals has led to such anger on both sides of the "fence".

I honestly don't have all the answers to all questions. But I am mandated by the Word itself to pass God's WORD along.

Whether you choose to believe them or not, is up to you, the individual.



The reason I don't believe is because it doesn't make any sense, I stopped believing at age 7, the same time as I stopped believing in santa, that didn't make sense either. I didn't need proof, people who believe in a god class have a very different definition of proof than I do. Your justification is exactly why I don't believe; "in a way you will know" - all 'she / he' has to do is show everyone at once, just get on with it and stop messing about. The reason it doesn't happen? It can't happen.

You won't agree as you simply don't want to, you don't really question, if you did you would be on the outside looking in and see that religion is all just about whatever people want to believe. Maybe it's warmer on the inside, but I like it out here, my life has been good, I've made my own luck. Religion relies on people spreading the same story and convincing people that it's real. If I wanted to believe I'm sure I could see a miracle in many things.

It's really great that you and so many others get peace and happiness from your religion, I have no desire to take that away from anyone. There lies a big issue - I'm happy to live my life without telling others how to think, yet so many people with religion in their veins feel the need to preach to those who don't want to hear it. A christian would want me to believe everything they told me, yet wouldn't want to hear what a muslim had to tell them. Why? What makes one right and another wrong? They may agree on some elements but ultimately they believe in different things.

Religion is a great tool for so many, it gives people happiness, and allows them to be content that their loved ones have gone to a good place and that one day they will follow (if they are good of course). Religion was most likely invented by the village elders to keep the plebs in order. How convenient that an all-seeing being is watching their every move.

In many places religion is still used as a tool to control, from getting the congregation to continue to fund the church (and the wages and building costs of course) through to ISIS using their own version of Islam to justify their actions and control the people. The Vatican is no different to scientology, just the latter came along much more recently and isn't as believed, but both exist to tell people what to do and generate as much money as possible. Parents use it to keep their children in check - god is watching and all that.

If there was a god it would be so simple to convert the world and stop the decline of the church - just do one amazing thing. Any being that can create an entire world in 6 days could easily put on a bit of a show so there was no doubt they existed. Yet the news isn't full of miracles, it's full of hurt and misery, war, death, murder. Any 'being' that allows children to be raped and murdered when it could be stopped isn't worthy of being worshipped. I'm sure there is some despicable explanation as to why it can't be stopped but the same 'god' can do other stuff to show its he / she is real.

Hmmmmm....

However back to the plot and my biggest issue with religion. It creates hate. Any religion that tells people how to live their lives and tells people what to think of others is just wrong. It's a shame it can't just be about good and spreading love. Telling people that homosexuality is wrong is wrong in itself, and people use that as justification for their bigotry. Around the world religion is at the heart of so much unhappiness, war, aggression. For me it cancels out any of the good it does.

You don't need religion to be good. I helped people, I've spent years helping people, I set up a charity that helps people, thousands of people, it's changed lives, saved lives, made a huge difference. I've never charged anyone, and I've never taken a penny for myself. I've now moved on, I've retired I suppose. In some ways it was my religion but there was no god, and I never told anyone how to live, never tried to get anyone to join me, I helped without needing them to do anything.

I think evryone should live their lives as they see fit as long as they are not hurting anybody. What has it got to do with me who someone loves, what they believe, or what they have for breakfast? Just don't try and tell me what I can and can't do and think. Then we can all get along just fine!
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I don't agree with homosexual and frankly I think homosexuality is disgusting... Though, I don't discriminate them and I will respect each individual as human being.

That's being said, just because they face some discrimination, doesn't mean they need to public and yelling to everyone they are guy. And to be homosexual is nothing to be proud of, it is outside of social norm. If someone is homosexual, just be homosexual, you don't need tell everyone homosexual. Hetrosexual couples don't force homosexual accept their sexual orientation, however, it seems homosexual people always wants heterosexual people accept homosexuality and if you don't agree, then you are discriminatory and not politically correct.

Once again, if someone is member of LGBT, keep it private. No need tell the world that you are gay. Being homosexual isn't something like get Olympic champion.


Huh? Heterosexual couples get married, live together, walk around holding hands, and that's fine - right? Yet you wouldn't like 2 guys or gals doing the same? Why? If the straight couple can then surely they are asking for people to accept them.

Your argument is incredibly flawed (not to mention very badly written) and simply shows your ignorance im afraid. And you do realise 'LGBT' isn't actually a club don't you?

I'm getting married next year, and I will tell the world (well, locally, around my village anyway!), why couldn't a gay couple do the same thing? I'm going to suggest you stop trying to justify your bigotry now and just find something else to do instead, it's making you look very silly.
 
Wherever you guys stand in religious perspective, this is a damn with lucky charm cereal written over on watch band. If you are gay, fine and if you are religious that's fine as well but no need to attack each other here. Don't believe in God that's fine as well as those who do. We should be respectful here to each other and not that villanrodent guy.
 
I did not call him a terrorist, so don't even try that one.

I'm not being hateful. You just don't want to acknowledge the fact that the homophobia you spew (and it is homophobia, you do not get to say what is or isn't homophobia because you are not LGBT+) contributes to the hate and marginalisation and oppression on LGBT+ people.

From your position of privilege, you have limited perspective clouded by your mythological beliefs.

For the record, I'm not a sinner. Such artificial concepts do not apply to me. I'm perfect, in case you didn't know.

Oh brother, another angry gay viewpoint. You and Warheadz (love you darling!) should compare notes. :D

But tell me this, what is an LBGT+? What does the "+" mean? Cisgender? Transvestite? Gender binary? Gender Tripartite? Cross-dresser? Drag queen? Ladyboy? Or is it just a catch-all for anything sexual that anyone wants to call themselves? Seriously, I want to know.
 
don't really care either way, just innovate and stop with the social issue BS. Im tried of it.
The original post mentions that Apple's been supportive of this social issue for 30 years.

Three decades.

I'd imagine that's probably not ever going to change, and will continue to be around during periods of frequent innovation, as well as during periods of less frequent innovation.

It was an employee that leaked this on Reddit, wasn't it? Apple didn't actually say anything themselves, did they?
 
Please point me to the research that proves all people claiming to be gay (or a fairy) are born that way?!? Race is very different to sexuality!
When, where, how and why one becomes gay is completely irrelevant. Pre-ejaculation or post-uterus it absolutely doesn't matter. If it is in my genes or if it is because of Mr. Gene, it's definitely none of your business.

After reading all the negligent rubbish on this thread I'm seriously considering to change my sexuality, skin color, race and religion on a daily base just to balance out your short visioned way of thinking. Black Indian gay Jew on Wednesday? Check. Chinese bi Hindu on Friday? Done deal! I'd however skip Caucasian white straight Christian Sundays. Sundays are boring.
 
See that is exactly what I am talking about. Yes, I do, even close family. And yes like you, they are filled with hate and revenge.
I'm not filled with a desire for revenge. You have some really strange bizarre ideas about gay people. And you couldn't be more wrong.
And the reason they are not the same is your treating your sexual preference like a religion and wanting to force it upon everyone and have everyone pray to your religion.
The irony in your very ignorant statement, is that religion has been used as a weapon to beat gay people over the head with for a great many decades.
 
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Oh brother, another angry gay viewpoint. You and Warheadz (love you darling!) should compare notes. :D

But tell me this, what is an LBGT+? What does the "+" mean? Cisgender? Transvestite? Gender binary? Gender Tripartite? Cross-dresser? Drag queen? Ladyboy? Or is it just a catch-all for anything sexual that anyone wants to call themselves? Seriously, I want to know.
Yes, I am angry and quite rightly.

The + is used to include other queer minorities that do not necessarily pertain to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Transgender. It allows inclusion for the entire umbrella of minority sexualities and gender identities.
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I think you went just a weensy bit too far the other way, my friend. Can't win the war if you can't really recognize the bad guys.
Any homophobia, no matter how small, contributes to the negative perception of LGBT+ people worldwide.
 
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. As I already said, it's not being born a homosexual that is the sin, it's the act of fornicating with the same sex. Same applies to unmarried fornication.
No. Not the same. With unmarried heterosexuals, there is a path to be together and not be frowned upon. Your religion gives gay people no such path. Thus it is not the same at all.

If you expect me and all gay people to live a life of solitude or loneliness through no fault of our own while the rest of you get to fall in love and have your relationships I can tell you that idea is a non-starter and will never fly.
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Perhaps "girly" men should marry "manly" women, and limit the role-reversal to the bedroom (with marital devices)? Or every homosexual be allowed to become fully transgendered and seek heterosexual coupling (in their new role)?

Again, I don't know the answers to all questions, but I certainly can come up with some...;)
What the hell? I think maybe you should stop trying to come up with answers. Those are horrible ideas. The butchest women in the world wouldn't do it for me. I'll stick with my husband thank you very much.

You also don't seem to understand the difference between gay people and transgendered people. Just because I want to be with a man doesn't mean that I want to become a woman. Far from it. I like being a guy. I'd never ever want to be a women.
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Orientation is fluid.
For you maybe. But don't presume to speak for everyone. My orientation has never changed. Ever.

I think orientation "changes" are really just denial.
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Perhaps it's time to hop into another Mayflower where I and mine can live in accordance with God's principles without resorting to violence to establish such a place.
Sure. There's a one-way mission to Mars in the works. That might be the solution you are looking for.
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I don't agree with homosexual and frankly I think homosexuality is disgusting... Though, I don't discriminate them and I will respect each individual as human being.

That's being said, just because they face some discrimination, doesn't mean they need to public and yelling to everyone they are guy. And to be homosexual is nothing to be proud of, it is outside of social norm. If someone is homosexual, just be homosexual, you don't need tell everyone homosexual. Hetrosexual couples don't force homosexual accept their sexual orientation, however, it seems homosexual people always wants heterosexual people accept homosexuality and if you don't agree, then you are discriminatory and not politically correct.

Once again, if someone is member of LGBT, keep it private. No need tell the world that you are gay. Being homosexual isn't something like get Olympic champion.
I don't know why you call yourself LovingTeddy here because your comments don't sound very loving at all. In fact they sound pretty hateful. But to your point, sure, I will be happy to keep it private when all the heterosexuals keep it private too. No more sappy movies, no more romance novels, no more photos on your desk, no more announcements in a newspaper....no holding hands somewhere....nothing.
 
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If you expect me and all gay people to live a life of solitude or loneliness through no fault of our own while the rest of you get to fall in love and have your relationships I can tell you that idea is a non-starter and will never fly.

Heterosexual Christians can't manage that very well either. In the good old days over 30% of he babies born to new mothers were 8# 8month premies.
 
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Okay, the utterly predictable has happened. The haters, shrouded in their comfy, internet-born anonymity, are yapping (say half this stuff in person to someone's face and see how quickly one gets punched in one's own) and folks are in full grievance-airing mode.

Can a mod kindly please lock this thread already?
 
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When in history has shutting down discussions ever helped? Much better to learn where people are coming from and have a dialog with one another. How else to hash things out as a society if we don't talk about them?
Yes, page after page of homophobic drivel, intolerant driveler-bashing, and last-word-itis really advances the debate. What was I thinking? I'm off to watch a six-hour Punch & Judy marathon.
 
Hetrosexual couples don't force homosexual accept their sexual orientation, however, it seems homosexual people always wants heterosexual people accept homosexuality and if you don't agree, then you are discriminatory and not politically correct.
I am very interested to learn about any occasion where a homosexual person pushed their orientation, or didn't accept or agreed with the orientation of their straight brethren. Never happened, never will be. Unless you have some news sources I don't know of? Please share the links. We're all waiting!
 
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You're focused on the examples and not the point: The argument was made to imply that consent led to justification in the context of homosexuality. I countered that with extreme, yet plausible examples that consent itself is not a justifier in itself.

But if you need a factual one, how about that of Dr Kevorkian? Does consent make what he did acceptable?
No, you focused on extreme, implausible, and provocative examples.

As far as assisted suicide is concerned, as I stated before, consent is not the argument for GLBT rights. Consent is a reason why certain "arguments" offered against GLBT rights (such as pedophilia) are invalid.

Assisted suicide is an issue for those with fatal, debilitating illnesses who want the right to die with dignity. That is a group that cuts across many demographics. Most of my family is more conservative, generally, than I am. But almost to a person, they have set up Advance Directives and other legal documents giving medical professionals instructions to withhold heroic lifesaving measures if there is no hope of recovery.
 
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Ah, the old "I'm not a bigot, you hating bigoted people makes you the real bigot" argument. There really should be a name for that now as it gets used enough.
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Let's stop awareness campaigns in this social age because Blacktape242 is tired of them.

(pssst. You being the superhero saviour you are might be totally fine with people of different colours and backgrounds - many aren't. I think it's great that one of the most known companies in the world engages in progressive movements like this. Anything to make the world a little better)



It's a forum right? I can have my opinion can't I? Or can I?
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I think you went just a weensy bit too far the other way, my friend. Can't win the war if you can't really recognize the bad guys.

It's quite the weak argument isn't it. Hate does not ever win against hate.
 
I don't agree with homosexual and frankly I think homosexuality is disgusting... Though, I don't discriminate them and I will respect each individual as human being.

So essentially you find a state of being disgusting - so do you think it is ok for people to decide they don't like african americans (For example) and find them disgusting? Because this is the same thing. The only disgusting person is you for projecting your hatred onto people who can not change who they are.


That's being said, just because they face some discrimination, doesn't mean they need to public and yelling to everyone they are guy. And to be homosexual is nothing to be proud of, it is outside of social norm. If someone is homosexual, just be homosexual, you don't need tell everyone homosexual. Hetrosexual couples don't force homosexual accept their sexual orientation, however, it seems homosexual people always wants heterosexual people accept homosexuality and if you don't agree, then you are discriminatory and not politically correct.

Um yes they do - I see straight couples hug and kiss in public all the time. I see them hold hands int he street. I see them together as couples - that is forcing others to accept their orientation.

THERE IS NOTHING TO 'AGREEE' WITH. People DO NOT decide to be gay. I think people like you prove why people would not choose to be gay, because it often leads down a road of abuse, hatred and mental illness.

Once again, if someone is member of LGBT, keep it private. No need tell the world that you are gay. Being homosexual isn't something like get Olympic champion.

So should straight couples never show any affection outside their own homes?
 
I did not choose anything. Don't put words in my mouth.

You chose to be a Christain. People are not born as religious, it is a belief that is taught by parents and then retained. I was brought up catholic by my parents, and when I was old enough to think for myself, continued with this belief (albeit disagreeing with some teachings). You have every opportunity to leave your religion for another, or to become an atheist. It isn't hard to do. Unless you're fluid (and thus essentially attracted to both sexes) homosexuals can not change what sex they are attracted to, and if you think that they deserve to live horrible lives because of that, that doesn't really align with Jesus's teachings.

BTW, everyone could use a little advice. To think you don't smacks of arrogance.

The way you wrote it smacks of arrogance.

Now, the Bible is not even close to open to interpretation on homosexuality. It is pretty clear:

Now, the below is merely informational on what the Book says...don't shoot the messenger

Leviticus 18:22: "Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable."
Leviticus 20:13: "If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads."
Romans 1:27: "In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error."
1 Timothy 1:9-11: "We also know that the law is made not for the righteous but for lawbreakers and rebels, the ungodly and sinful, the unholy and irreligious, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers, for the sexually immoral, for those practicing homosexuality, for slave traders and liars and perjurers--and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine that conforms to the gospel concerning the glory of the blessed God, which he entrusted to me."

There's more.

All that said, Christ is willing to forgive it ALL. The "fruit" (or rather, evidence of the presence of His Spirit in real Christians

So if you're using Leviticus as your moral compass, then I certainly hope you don't eat crustaceans, I hope you make all your own clothes out of one fabric, I hope you never tear your clothes, I hope you follow every other teaching in leviticus. I assume also if you're depending on the old testament, you also belief that women are inferior to men in pretty much every way.

The bible was written in a very different time, and for many sections we can not be sure exactly what is being referred to. Some thing that references to homosexuality were not homosexuality as it is known today.

The new testament makes so little reference to homosexuality it is not funny. Jesus NEVER talks about it. He talks about a man leaving his parents to marry a woman (not the correct quote of course) but doesn't condemn homosexuals with that passage.

If theres anything to base morality off, it would be the teachings of Jesus.
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What about the individual who is born with a sexual attraction to children, or animals? Is he/she not allowed to love? Or the individual who is born with a psycopathy and feels the need to kill other people, for whatever reason?

I realize these are extreme examples, but the issue is that the Bible specifies that being born with an inclination does not justify its presence.

It also specifies that the existence of an inclination is to be treated with empathy and compassion by those who profess to be in concert with God's concepts, in as much as the Law and sound judgement allows.

Because neither can give consent. There is nothing about two men or two women that prevent consent from being given.
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I have no dislike or prejudice against homosexual people. So I must agree to disagree. The homosexuals in my church are loved, respected, and from what I can tell of sound mind. As I already said, it's not being born a homosexual that is the sin, it's the act of fornicating with the same sex. Same applies to unmarried fornication. All are sinners and condemned to hell, as all are born into sin from the start. It's being human. Many Christians like to gloss over that and take a "holier than thou" attitude. All "hell" means is being apart from God. Satan has dominion outside of God's kingdom, therefore if you aren't for and with God you're with Satan, which is in hell. The only exception are those who are not able to understand and are innocent (children, people with mental retardation).

And this is the position that causes mental illness and succeed. This 'I still love them' is complete crap. You're essentially telling LGBT teenagers that they're set up for a life where they're not allowed the same lifestyle that heterosexual people are 'allowed'. This view essentially says "God made you different so you can essentially have a life where you can never love or be loved in the same way that these other people who were lucky enough to be born straight". It makes no sense whatsoever.
 
But you're missing the most amazing part. Don't let being a sinner drag you down because everyone is in the same boat and I'm right there beside you. The beauty of true Christianity is that all you have to do is accept the love of God and you're good

Except if you're born gay and you get to have a semi miserable life.

To wrap things up, please don't accuse people in the MacRumors community of being terrorists. I will not stand for that and will talk to moderators and even take it up to arn if I have to (of which I've had occasional communications with in the past) and have your posting removed. Spewing that kind of hate and extremism on these forums is not permissible

But its fine for you to spew your hatred? Just because you dress it up as "I still love them", doesn't really make it any much better.
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Its an absolute statement-
There is only one God.

You don't know that, any more than i know. I believe in one God, but I accept others believe different things.
 
You chose to be a Christain. People are not born as religious, it is a belief that is taught by parents and then retained. I was brought up catholic by my parents, and when I was old enough to think for myself, continued with this belief (albeit disagreeing with some teachings). You have every opportunity to leave your religion for another, or to become an atheist. It isn't hard to do. Unless you're fluid (and thus essentially attracted to both sexes) homosexuals can not change what sex they are attracted to, and if you think that they deserve to live horrible lives because of that, that doesn't really align with Jesus's teachings.



The way you wrote it smacks of arrogance.



So if you're using Leviticus as your moral compass, then I certainly hope you don't eat crustaceans, I hope you make all your own clothes out of one fabric, I hope you never tear your clothes, I hope you follow every other teaching in leviticus. I assume also if you're depending on the old testament, you also belief that women are inferior to men in pretty much every way.

The bible was written in a very different time, and for many sections we can not be sure exactly what is being referred to. Some thing that references to homosexuality were not homosexuality as it is known today.

The new testament makes so little reference to homosexuality it is not funny. Jesus NEVER talks about it. He talks about a man leaving his parents to marry a woman (not the correct quote of course) but doesn't condemn homosexuals with that passage.

If theres anything to base morality off, it would be the teachings of Jesus.
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Because neither can give consent. There is nothing about two men or two women that prevent consent from being given.
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And this is the position that causes mental illness and succeed. This 'I still love them' is complete crap. You're essentially telling LGBT teenagers that they're set up for a life where they're not allowed the same lifestyle that heterosexual people are 'allowed'. This view essentially says "God made you different so you can essentially have a life where you can never love or be loved in the same way that these other people who were lucky enough to be born straight". It makes no sense whatsoever.

Never ceases to amaze me how many people will take parts of the Bible literally word for word, happy to let other bits slide and twist others just to fit their agenda and justify their prejudices.
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Its an absolute statement-
There is only one God.

To you.

Buddhists, Hindus, Sikhs, Muslims* and Jews* would disagree.

*OK, technically same god, different story.
 
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