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For example, what if a psycopath, who is born with the inclination to kill, hooks up with someone who believes there is absolutely no point or value in life, and consents to the psycopath killing him/her? Does that make it okay?

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That's not an "opinion". The notion that somebody else's lifestyle is "incorrect" does not even make sense.

What about the middle eastern lifestyle of having sex with underage boys?

I think the notion that those kinds of lifestyles being incorrect completely makes sense. That kind of kills your argument about what makes sense. Now you have to ask, what moral standard do we apply to determine that this lifestyle is wrong, and what moral standard do some in the discussion apply to determine that homosexuality is wrong?

If you think on that, you'll see why both sides can make sense and it comes down to an opinion (which you said it isnt) between two sides that hold different values of what is acceptable or moral sexual behavior.
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Prove it!



The concept of god is nothing but a figment of your imaginations. So what your imaginary "god" "thinks" is entirely irrelevant to the lives of others who do not belong to your cult.

Sure, next time you are alone, sincerely ask him to show you who he is and if he is really there. Don't do it for anyone else other than yourself in order to learn the truth.

If you get the knock and you don't want to answer, that's your choice, but the truth is really easy to find.
 
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the problem with gods word is that no one follows it all everyone picks and chooses and modifies to fit their needs. plus the parts of the bible were written by hundreds of people at different times and really are not a coherent book. There is no absolute interpretation of the bible an no one can agree on it's meaning. it is too vague to be exact and we don't know what was really meant most of the time as we have no understanding of how people lived exactly back then. we don't live in that culture and and trying to define relationships by it is not going to work. marriage back then was between two or more people who had no choice and may never even have met before. we now know animals posses homosexuality traits too so god must not mind too much or god was speaking of things that now have changed or was just he authors prejudice speaking.

Even the Bible itself says that people will twist its words to hear what they want to hear. What people do with the Bible does not make what it's saying invalid.

If I decided to use natural selection to oppress other races, does that discount the concept? Because that is exactly what Adolf Hitler and his followers chose to believe.

If you think the Bible is vague you really haven't read it, or perhaps you've read it while dismissing it as fairy tale and such from the beginning, which will not allow you to accept ANYTHING it says.

For me, again, for me, the issue in question is obvious:

Sexual intercourse, while more fun than just about anything else, is primarily focused on procreation. That is the primary intended purpose by design: make it fun so people will procreate and further the species.

The equipment is designed for such purpose (sperm-male + egg-female).

It's operation furthers this: the male organ (and orgasm) is a delivery mechanism. The female organs (and orgasm) are a recipient mechanism. The female orgasm dips the cervix into the male ejaculate, improving the chances of conception.

The drive to find the opposite sex to continue the intended process is a part of and an integral component of the design. I thus believe that this component is damaged in homosexual individuals (by birth or otherwise), much the same as more universally accepted ones like bi-polar disorder, dwarfism, or down-syndrome.

I also believe that the simple observation of all four (reproductive) systems (physical-male, physical-female, mental-male, mental-female) gives EVIDENCE of the moral concept spoken of in the Bible.

However, the Bible calls to treating individuals with compassion, much like we should with those suffering from the above physical/mental issues.

All that said, whether or not you should use the system in a different way than intended, just because you can, is where this debate lies: Much like tying extension cords together to be used as rope. You can do it, but we should not be saying that it's ok do do so.

Perhaps "girly" men should marry "manly" women, and limit the role-reversal to the bedroom (with marital devices)? Or every homosexual be allowed to become fully transgendered and seek heterosexual coupling (in their new role)?

Again, I don't know the answers to all questions, but I certainly can come up with some...;)
 
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Agreed!

Replace LGBTO with BLACK and I hope you understand why many people don't agree with what you said there.

Please point me to the research that proves all people claiming to be gay (or a fairy) are born that way?!? Race is very different to sexuality!
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Honestly I'm more interested in the strap just because it's reminiscent of the classic Apple logo.

Or a rainbow that's been in the sky since the Big Bang.
 
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You have conflated homosexuality with pedophilia and serial murder. Zoophilia for the trifecta of discredited tropes!

No I didn't. I used it as an example of a particular behaviour being justified because an individual is "born with it".

Let's not derail the conversation because you did not understand the point I was making or you sit on the opposite side.
 
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That's not an "opinion". The notion that somebody else's lifestyle is "incorrect" does not even make sense.
That's not the only opinion possible, is it? Another person's lifestyle can be one you find distasteful, immoral, unhealthy, unnatural, etc. Those are valid opinions because they don't require anything but emotions to back them up.

And now that I think about it a little more, feeling that someone's lifestyle is wrong or "incorrect" is a valid opinion.
 
According to the Oxford dictionary:

Homophobia
Noun
Dislike of or prejudice against homosexual people.​

I have no dislike or prejudice against homosexual people. So I must agree to disagree. The homosexuals in my church are loved, respected, and from what I can tell of sound mind. As I already said, it's not being born a homosexual that is the sin, it's the act of fornicating with the same sex. Same applies to unmarried fornication. All are sinners and condemned to hell, as all are born into sin from the start. It's being human. Many Christians like to gloss over that and take a "holier than thou" attitude. All "hell" means is being apart from God. Satan has dominion outside of God's kingdom, therefore if you aren't for and with God you're with Satan, which is in hell. The only exception are those who are not able to understand and are innocent (children, people with mental retardation).

But you're missing the most amazing part. Don't let being a sinner drag you down because everyone is in the same boat and I'm right there beside you. The beauty of true Christianity is that all you have to do is accept the love of God and you're good. I still sin, but I am not condemned. I try not to sin, because of the love I have for God and He for I, and I'm often successful in not falling into temptation. But sometimes I do sin. And God forgives me every time. Don't be confused, this can include the smallest things, such as a little white lie. All sins are equal. Don't feel condemned by God because of what you are. People commit suicide for lots of reasons. If someone feels so guilty that they decide to take their own life, then that is unfortunate. Both my parents recently attempted suicide, so believe me it's fresh in my mind. They are the type of Christians you speak of, who are full of hate and malice. In my opinion, not actually Christians, but that is neither here nor there and not up to me to judge. But their behavior doesn't square with the Bible I read. They are not happy people and constantly feel condemned as well to the point where my dad nearly bled out and I literally had to talk my mom off a ledge over the phone.

To wrap things up, please don't accuse people in the MacRumors community of being terrorists. I will not stand for that and will talk to moderators and even take it up to arn if I have to (of which I've had occasional communications with in the past) and have your posting removed. Spewing that kind of hate and extremism on these forums is not permissible. You cannot go around calling people you disagree with terrorists and murderers. That is hate speech and a complete fabrication. And again, you're not helping your cause. And if you're still confused, I am for you and with you and your community. What happened sucks and was a horrific tragedy. I feel sorry for you and wish you the best. But you're so confused about the real issue here that you're willing to make yourself look like a fool in front of everyone which will not help you in the end. And the real issue is hate. Christians should not hate homosexuals. I'll let the Muslims speak for themselves, which is what this man claimed to be. But I will say that the vast majority of them appear to be a peaceful people. We must all stop hating each other, and that goes for both sides. Your comments are hateful. Other people here are also being hateful. I'm just responding to you because I happened to see your post and took issue with your accusations calling people out as terrorists.

I did not call him a terrorist, so don't even try that one.

I'm not being hateful. You just don't want to acknowledge the fact that the homophobia you spew (and it is homophobia, you do not get to say what is or isn't homophobia because you are not LGBT+) contributes to the hate and marginalisation and oppression on LGBT+ people.

From your position of privilege, you have limited perspective clouded by your mythological beliefs.

For the record, I'm not a sinner. Such artificial concepts do not apply to me. I'm perfect, in case you didn't know.
 
I am aware of the difference. Consent is correct, and a valid point.

But the point I was attempting to make is the idea that being born with a certain inclination does not justify its existence, so that argument is invalid. Consent falls under that same "slippery slope":

For example, what if a psycopath, who is born with the inclination to kill, hooks up with someone who believes there is absolutely no point or value in life, and consents to the psycopath killing him/her? Does that make it okay?

Who makes that determination and sets those boundaries? Who has the right to?

We'd need to look at homosexuality and discuss it from a point of view outside of that to justify it's morality, and thus the necessity to have or not have controls based on the law. At least in the US, we should be able to vote on such things.

This is why I advocate the call to discuss, and not FIGHT. As a Christian, this is CENTRAL.
Girl, this isn't a discussion. This isn't something we are going to compromise over.

You do not get to decide on our equality and freedom by a vote. Frankly, even the suggestion of a vote is disgusting. We decide for ourselves. We affect nobody else so wind your neck in. We don't want to be left alone, we don't want tolerance, we demand acceptance and we will not stop until we get it. We will not shut up, we will not stop. We are not changing, so if you have a problem with that you can change yourself. Got it?
 
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Good questions. How about the person who is attracted to people outside their own race or religious group? Or born with some other anomaly such as being a twin?

These are cases where at times and in certain places having these attributes was something that caused people to be considered outcasts. (I have a friend who adopted a set of twins from Africa because the religious belief of the tribe they were from was that one would be evil and one would be good. To be safe, the tribe's tradition was to kill both twins.)

When you argue a slippery slope, you have to remember that the slope goes both ways. Insisting that everyone has to follow a proscribed set of standards means you have to decide what those standards are, and they may just as easily be set up so that women must keep their heads covered and their mouths shut, or that slaves must obey their masters, or something else that comes from ancient religious texts but seems outdated today.

Back to your examples, we aren't moving in those directions. Quite the opposite. Our recent history has been more about protecting children and animals (those that do the most to protect them are accused of being part or the "nanny state"), and we don't see an increasing tolerance towards psychopathic murder. If we see a warlord today like the legendary Moses (golden calf massacre of his own people) or Joshua (slaughter of Jericho), our impulse is to try and take that individual out.

It's a straw man to imply that recognition of consensual gay relationships or same-sex marriages will lead to hamsters having the right to vote (or some other ridiculous notion). It's easier to see step-by-step how giving women the right to vote leads to same-sex marriage and transgender rights.

As I stated before, I cannot speak for other situations or doctrine.

My arguments are very specific: Biblical (as in the Judeo-Christian Bible) principles as they relate specifically to homosexual behaviour in (mostly) the form of Biblical quotes.

There is nothing "straw-man" about it. I'm focused on what the Bible says regarding the issue.

The external examples are given as a way to counter specific (although mostly implied) argument that being born a certain way ( in this case, gay) makes it acceptable to be this way, and that consent is also a gateway to acceptability.
 
I, too, would like a world without sin.

We are all sinners; it is not a thing to be celebrated. We should condemn all sin, whether it is murder, theft, greed or sexual abuse.

I wish Apple would concentrate more on innovation and less on watch bands and politics that has nothing to do with Apple's products but only serves to divide and alienate its customers and employees.
Tim seems preoccupied with taking every opportunity to tell the world how tolerant 'the new Apple' is. While that's debatably commendable, from Tim & Co, I'd rather hear about the latest processors, the most secure encryption technologies and the fastest storage modules employed in the newest crop of devices. Duh.....
 
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Which color is for straights?

What happened to unity instead of glorifying segregation? Or do people only do either out of selfish convenience rather than actual compromise and tolerance?
 
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Agreed!

Replace LGBTO with BLACK and I hope you understand why many people don't agree with what you said there.

Orientation is fluid. Most who hide behind active discrimination usually feel ashamed of their own attractions. Plus, one cannot see an orientation the way one sees skin color. Makes things a little more complicated. Doesn't matter if one is T,B,G,L,Q,A,Q,S,P,H,H, or any other letter in the acronym that changes itself every decade for no reason...
 
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Which color is for straights?

What happened to unity instead of glorifying segregation? Or do people only do either out of selfish convenience rather than actual compromise and tolerance?
Look to Tolkien for the answer:

“For I am Saruman the Wise, Saruman Ring-maker, Saruman of Many Colours!'

I looked then and saw that his robes, which had seemed white, were not so, but were woven of all colours, and if he moved they shimmered and changed hue so that the eye was bewildered.

I liked white better,' I said.

White!' he sneered. 'It serves as a beginning. White cloth may be dyed. The white page can be overwritten; and the white light can be broken.'

In which case it is no longer white,' said I. 'And he that breaks a thing to find out what it is has left the path of wisdom.' - Gandalf”​
 
As I stated before, I cannot speak for other situations or doctrine.

My arguments are very specific: Biblical (as in the Judeo-Christian Bible) principles as they relate specifically to homosexual behaviour in (mostly) the form of Biblical quotes.

There is nothing "straw-man" about it. I'm focused on what the Bible says regarding the issue.

The external examples are given as a way to counter specific (although mostly implied) argument that being born a certain way ( in this case, gay) makes it acceptable to be this way, and that consent is also a gateway to acceptability.



And the only way to really understand the books is to live in the time in which they were written, since miscommunication had to be in the original texts if all the translations can't be bothered to show the same verbiage in each. Which was nothing like the 20th or 21st centuries. Some tenets remain true, obviously. Others don't, obviously. Some tenets I agree with, others I don't. Heck, even evangelists openly disagree on a few and perceive different meanings, far more out there than any translation up to now could ever begin to try to say with a straight face, pardon the pun.

The Bible isn't the only religion, not every religion is perfect, every religion contradicts itself, and if everyone lived the Bible the way the Bible says to, the human race would be extinct. Replace "Bible" with "Quran", or any other Book. Same difference.
 
Girl, this isn't a discussion. This isn't something we are going to compromise over.

You do not get to decide on our equality and freedom by a vote. Frankly, even the suggestion of a vote is disgusting. We decide for ourselves. We affect nobody else so wind your neck in. We don't want to be left alone, we don't want tolerance, we demand acceptance and we will not stop until we get it. We will not shut up, we will not stop. We are not changing, so if you have a problem with that you can change yourself. Got it?

Really? The end of African American slavery was decided by vote. The right for women to vote was decided by vote. So your 'cause' is somehow held above those?

You already have tolerance, and certainly have acceptance (where it actually impacts your life).

But your post sounds like you'd rather have war than to talk it out. Be careful what you wish for. What's next, you'll make me agree with you? It's attitude like that which can cause murderous individuals to take matters into violent hands.

I admit this country is at a crossroads, and perhaps war is what it'll take. I most certainly hope not.

Perhaps it's time to hop into another Mayflower where I and mine can live in accordance with God's principles without resorting to violence to establish such a place.
 
As I stated before, I cannot speak for other situations or doctrine.

My arguments are very specific: Biblical (as in the Judeo-Christian Bible) principles as they relate specifically to homosexual behaviour in (mostly) the form of Biblical quotes.

There is nothing "straw-man" about it. I'm focused on what the Bible says regarding the issue.

The external examples are given as a way to counter specific (although mostly implied) argument that being born a certain way ( in this case, gay) makes it acceptable to be this way, and that consent is also a gateway to acceptability.
Consent is not what makes it acceptable. It's just something that differentiates it from the non-consensual examples you gave, and is part of makes them invalid as analogies.

What makes them (pedophilia, bestiality, murderous psychosis) a straw man is that they don't represent a likely next step in the arc of history.
 
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And the only way to really understand the books is to live in the time in which they were written, since miscommunication had to be in the original texts if all the translations can't be bothered to show the same verbiage in each. Which was nothing like the 20th or 21st centuries. Some tenets remain true, obviously. Others don't, obviously. Some tenets I agree with, others I don't. Heck, even evangelists openly disagree on a few and perceive different meanings, far more out there than any translation up to now could ever begin to try to say with a straight face, pardon the pun.

The Bible isn't the only religion, not every religion is perfect, every religion contradicts itself, and if everyone lived the Bible the way the Bible says to, the human race would be extinct. Replace "Bible" with "Quran", or any other Book. Same difference.

So you say...
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Consent is not what makes it acceptable. It's just something that differentiates it from the non-consensual examples you gave, and is part of makes them invalid as analogies.

What makes them (pedophilia, bestiality, murderous psychosis) a straw man is that they don't represent a likely next step in the arc of history.

You're focused on the examples and not the point: The argument was made to imply that consent led to justification in the context of homosexuality. I countered that with extreme, yet plausible examples that consent itself is not a justifier in itself.

But if you need a factual one, how about that of Dr Kevorkian? Does consent make what he did acceptable?
 
Neat.... Now every Apple employee can now be spotted more easily

Shame these are only for Apple staff.
 
What a bunch of nonsense to try to justify discrimination. This is why people hate Christians. Just mind your own damn business and stop trying to tell other people what to do in their own personal relationships. Nobody needs to justify "morality" to you or anyone else.

This is why the pope is telling Christians to cut their ****, stop acting like *****, and apologize.

I don't think you understand what morality is. Look it up.

There's the "hate" again. You and the Orlando shooter are no different. Resorting to hatred and anger because someone disagrees with you. Take it easy.

I'm not telling anyone to justify anything. I'm merely offering a counter when they do, and its reasons.

But hey, its easy to be tough on the internet. People don't expect some one to track them down.
 
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