You sound like you don't want to hear an explanation at all and have already made up your mind about the issue.
However, if you are really interested in analyzing the why, below is a link with an interesting explanation:
http://www.gotquestions.org/Deuteronomy-22-28-29-marry-rapist.html
Keep in mind for the sake of argument, that there are cultural conventions that were the norm then. Yet, in Ephesians we get this: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her...In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself." So women as property? Not really. Husband and wife are "one flesh". There's more, but you have to do your homework if you really want to learn. Arguing for the sake of arguing is pointless.
Yet all this is still besides
the point of the Bible. God is expounding on what He determines to be wrong or right behavior, and the consequences of each.