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I think incest is wrong because it's important to keep a seperation between the inherent love you feel towards your family members and sexual desire. Obviously it also runs the risk creating abnormal children even if a person thinks they are infertile.

Polygamy is wrong because a married relationship should be about commitment. Nobody is stopping you holding off making that kind of commitment if you find it difficult.

These are both quite different things to homosexuality.
So you think that you can judge and tell people who and how to love each other, but you think people who think homosexuality is a perversion are bigots? Double standard?
 
Affirmation is good. Encouragement is good. But no one has the right to force things upon others so that they can get affirmation.

It would be a big step if the deception was removed and the homosexual movement would just come out and say that is their agenda. Instead they hide behind falsehoods.

And what do you think that agenda is?

Because what the community is fighting for aren't falsehoods. In more than half of the states, a trans person can be fired, for being trans. In half the states you can be fired for being gay, I should know, I got fired for that exact reason. My life offended my Christian (member of the World Harvest Church) boss at the time.

As a lesbian, you know what my agenda is? Being able to marry my girlfriend, and have myself and other LGBTQIA people to be protected under the law like other people.
 
No, what they did do was redefine the law so that a woman could not be discriminated against at work for the sole reason of being a woman. In the uk at least.

EXACTLY. They didn't solve the issue by just calling everyone (male and female) a Man.

The argument by folks on this forum is that same sex marriage needs to be called marriage in order for it to be equal. NO IT DOES NOT!
 
May I respectfully point out that you assume something that you have not proven either? But fear not, when we're both dead, we will either know which of us is right or we will know nothing at all.

Logical error on your side: Anyone making an argument needs to _prove_ that the argument holds. Anyone using some god thing as an argument needs to _prove_ that this god exists, or their argument is void. I don't have to prove anything.
 
yeah, I believe if a topic is open for equal discussion, than it is open for all.

Want to talk about A religion, than you talk about all religions (and also not believing in religion).

You want to talk about Homosexuality in school, you also talk about the entire LGBT, straight, CIS, and all.

the way to true equality IMHO is through education. Give everyone the right to knowledge and let them choose.

if yo want your child to learn your religious background, you should have that right to teach them. This doesn't preclude however teaching the sciences.

if I want to choose that my kid never learns religion, I have that right as well.

It isn't a zero sum game.

If I don't want to teach her about different sexualities in grade school I don't have that choice unless I pull her out of public school. That choices made for me. They also choose whether or not to let my kids talk about her faith in school, which they don't by the way. Inequality.
 
His no. 1 priority is to the stockholders? What about the employees that make and sell the products? All the stockholders did was give them some money ages ago. Or did the stockholders come up with the iPad, iPhone, iOS, ApplePay? You know, all the things that are making Apple billions, and that the stockholders are all clamouring for...

The CEO reports to the board, who report to the stockholders, who are the owners of the company. It isn't win/lose. It can be win/win. However, a good CEO had better set priorities, and the first one had better be to his boss, like others do in their work.
 
There is a difference between blocking someone who disagrees with you for a valid reason and blocking someone who refuses to participate in reality or deal with logic and facts. I have no patience for such a person.
Everything is subjective. We all have our own logic.
 
Removing an exclusion from the list would make it simpler. This is unfocused and doesn't help your argument.



People make issues complex because they can't converse about them if they are simple. Is this some sort of inverse cognitive disorder where someone cannot discuss the weather but has no problem solving partial differential equations, for example? I would like documented, peer-reviewed evidence of this phenomenon you speak of.



And now we get to the true diverting. The argument is not about agenda or what is truly equal. The argument is a simple question. Why can't the definition change? If your reply doesn't address that, you're deliberately going off topic.



A man and a man is indeed a different pairing than a man and a woman. But this doesn't address why that union cannot be called a marriage. Please stay on-topic.

You are off topic, not me. I started it. Good grief.

To answer your only real question in this post. "Why that union cannot be called marriage? It is different. The same way we do not call a woman a man. She is DIFFERENT.
 
You sound like you don't want to hear an explanation at all and have already made up your mind about the issue.

However, if you are really interested in analyzing the why, below is a link with an interesting explanation:

http://www.gotquestions.org/Deuteronomy-22-28-29-marry-rapist.html

Keep in mind for the sake of argument, that there are cultural conventions that were the norm then. Yet, in Ephesians we get this: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her...In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself." So women as property? Not really. Husband and wife are "one flesh". There's more, but you have to do your homework if you really want to learn. Arguing for the sake of arguing is pointless.

Yet all this is still besides the point of the Bible. God is expounding on what He determines to be wrong or right behavior, and the consequences of each.

So, we're back around to God *explicitly* saying that a raped woman must marry her rapist, or be put to death, apparently based on "what He determines to be wrong or right behavior, and the consequences of each".

Still waiting for the 'context' where that makes sense...
 
So you think that you can judge and tell people who and how to love each other, but you think people who think homosexuality is a perversion are bigots? Double standard?

See, I agree there. If siblings/cousins, truly feel romantic affection towards each other, and they know the risks of reproduction, I'd be a hypocrite to say their love is any less valid than mine. When it comes to parent/child, I think there is a greater potential of abuse, but again, who am I to say no to two consenting adults.

As to polyamory, I'm a firm believer that there are people out there that are capable of loving more than one person, and like before, consenting adults.
 
Your explanation shows that human relationships are complex and can not be labeled.

I personaly believe though that there is value to the traditional family especially when children are involved. I think they should be raised by a man and woman who love each other and them, if possible. A loving same-sex couple however is better than an orphanage.

Besides that their should be the option to have registered partneships that have the same legal effect as a traditional marriage. I also think that only the traditional man-woman partnership should be labeled "marriage" because I think that it's important to keep some stability, tradition and because religious folks got dips on the term. Even famous gay people like Karl Lagerfeld believe that there is a difference between a traditional marriage and a same sex partnership.

Both should be equal before the law and people should respect or at least tolerate each other.

right which comes to the simple semantics argument. Whats the point of having two terms to explain the same basic principle.

If by the very legal letter of the law, both terms are identical in all but word. Why create the unnecessary distinction other than to be distinctly aware that there is a difference. Is that not inequality?

I've often heard this argument and It bothers me. if true equality is the goal, than perhaps a new term is needed. And marriage stricken from all books and legal documents. All going forward, no matter what gender, sexuality or type, it is now "partnership". all legal reference to marriage stricken. it is no longer a term used by law.

What would you think the reaction to that is?

However, regarding the "family unit" thing. it's a very tough thing to consider. Anything is better than an orphanage. I came from a solid nuclear family. two parents who are still happily married. 2 siblings. it was wonderful

But I also had friends from "broken homes". who turned out to be amazing people. I have had friends with gay parents who turned out perfectly normal. I've had friends who were adopted who were perfectly normal and even one friend who grew up in orphanages, who is perfectly normal.

however, a couple "bad eggs" have all come from the standard nuclear family. What does this show us in regards to this. there's been no clear evidence to really show that the makeup of the family is indicative of how the child turns out. How those kids are treated within their families are a greater influence
 
Anyone else think it was a little bit ironic that they just posted that hello Kitty Beats edition? Hahaaaa
 
If I don't want to teach her about different sexualities in grade school I don't have that choice unless I pull her out of public school. That choices made for me. They also choose whether or not to let my kids talk about her faith in school, which they don't by the way. Inequality.

Why should you have control over the curriculum as opposed to another parent or school official?

Do you have evidence that other children or actively allowed to discuss other faiths or the lack of existence of God? Sounds like you don't understand what inequality means.

You are off topic, not me. I started it. Good grief.

To answer your only real question in this post. "Why that union cannot be called marriage? It is different. The same way we do not call a woman a man. She is DIFFERENT.

I asked you a question and you brought irrelevant stuff into your non-answer of the question.

There are an infinite number of differences between one married couple and another, yet they are both considered married. If you want that argument to actually make any sense, you need to explicitly identify which differences are actually pertinent to the definition, and why those differences are so core to the definition of the word that they cannot be argued as unsuitable criteria for the definition.
 
Have no problem with Tim being proud that he is gay but he also has responsibility to the stock holders or which the majority are not gay and some will take exception to his preferences.

Just do not think it was appropriate.

Freedom of speech is inappropriate?
 
Logical error on your side: Anyone making an argument needs to _prove_ that the argument holds. Anyone using some god thing as an argument needs to _prove_ that this god exists, or their argument is void. I don't have to prove anything.

You're probably right, we have no creator, just like the iPhone. It just appeared. Poof.:rolleyes:
 
Because some will take exception to his preferences. It is not just Tim, he represents Apple and the stockholders. It will not be an issue to some but it will be to others.

I just feel he announcement was unnecessary of it was only to make him "feel proud". Sorry but it is my opinion.

You seem not to have read what he said.

Paraphrasing: He believes that he has benefited from the courage and the work of many gay people. And by saying that the CEO of Apple is gay, _he_ can in turn help many gay people who are in a less strong position than he is.

You can easily see how necessary that is by reading some of the posts in this thread.
 
You're probably right, we have no creator, just like the iPhone. It just appeared. Poof.:rolleyes:

Of course not. The iPhone is the product of intelligent design. The universe is the product of the laws of nature. And the sound was a bit louder.
 
EXACTLY. They didn't solve the issue by just calling everyone (male and female) a Man.

The argument by folks on this forum is that same sex marriage needs to be called marriage in order for it to be equal. NO IT DOES NOT!

Technically it does. But who cares? How does it affect your life at all if a couple of gay people can get married? Let them do their thing.. that's what America is supposed to be.. "free".

The fact that there's 70 pages about this is a despicable testament to how far society still has to go. So many people still stuck in the 19th century.


It's also quite funny to hear religious people whine about the "redefinition of marriage" like religion invented the term. Pro-tip: marriage has been around for longer than organized religion.
 
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