Someone else asked this on here, but no one answered. I ordered two phones on the same Apple account. One is for me and the other is for my husband. I recieved the e-mail from AT&T and my upgrade eligibility has changed. Mine is also prepared for shipping.
However, my husband's is not, still "able" to upgrade, and no e-mail. On my e-mail, since we are on a family plan, it had his information on there on as well (my activation fee was waived and his wasn't).
I am not worried as of yet since it is early and Apple did pre-authorize my card for both, but I was wondering if anyone that has ordered two on the same account is only showing one as prepared and the other as not. Also, any help from past 3GS pre-orders would help.
I have the same setup as you. I was waived the activation fee, but my wife wasn't. I just checked both orders and they both are showing prepared for shipping.