The Max gets beaten by the s10+ in all battery life tests let alone the Note 10. The xr is the only iPhone with comparable battery life to any of the top android phones. Don't get me wrong if Apple put a 4300mah battery in an iPhone it would have incredible battery life, no arguments there.
Truth is all phones are so similar and mature in 2019, the Android VS Apple argument is less relevant then ever. All phones get all day battery life, all phones have fantastic cameras, all phones have great build quality and great screens. The biggest difference is software and that is really down to preference.
Agree, which is what makes the iPhone retail prices so unjustified. They don't have significant advantage in hardware or software to justify the premium. But people see that apple logo and throw money at them so there's no motivation for them to change. But that's another discussion.