The government should get out of the marriage business and this would be a non issue.
Also, if taxes were only a sales tax and not based on your marital status this would be a non issue.
Allow for ownership and inheritance be declared at time of acquisition of property. Eliminate the grey area of who is entitled to what on death or divorce.
Issues like this rise up when the government is too involved in your lives. For example, do gays appreciate the fact that their marriages have banned or not recognized in many states for a long time? Well the solution is keep govt out of our lives and make them do as little as possible. You can marry a rock for all anyone cares and it shouldn't be tied to anything or any govt handouts or benefits. Marry who you like, it's about love not tax breaks or benefits right?
tldr: dont make marriage something that is tied to a benefits package. Just make it marriage and let people marry as they see fit. See people as individuals.
Also, if taxes were only a sales tax and not based on your marital status this would be a non issue.
Allow for ownership and inheritance be declared at time of acquisition of property. Eliminate the grey area of who is entitled to what on death or divorce.
Issues like this rise up when the government is too involved in your lives. For example, do gays appreciate the fact that their marriages have banned or not recognized in many states for a long time? Well the solution is keep govt out of our lives and make them do as little as possible. You can marry a rock for all anyone cares and it shouldn't be tied to anything or any govt handouts or benefits. Marry who you like, it's about love not tax breaks or benefits right?
tldr: dont make marriage something that is tied to a benefits package. Just make it marriage and let people marry as they see fit. See people as individuals.