Missing the point entirely.
Most people may not be as tech savvy as we on this forum are. Most people may just think that in order to keep their computer working properly, they just hit "ok". That doesn't make them lazy or stupid - it's just not of interest to them to know all the inner workings of software on their computer.
Excellent points, all of them. I would add:
Most people TRUST Apple to update a product when that is what they say they are going to do. Apple is misusing that trust- however benignly- by turning an update into an install. Apple needs the trust of users to be, well, Apple. No trust, and they are MS.
And I think that is the bigger point. Apple is now long down the road to "Microsftness." They are no longer the cute, cuddle company they once were. I know it is hard for th fanbois to see this. It is incremental, but they are definitely doing it.
It started when Apple changed their name to Apple Computers. Then- remember this- charging to upgrade an existing piece of hardware in the iMacs to work. That was a test (obviously just a test, because they were giving it away free within a month). People bitched, but the fanbois were there to support them.
Then, lets see, there is charging more for DRM-less music. Seems Amazon can do DRM-Less w/o an upcharge, and at a higher bit rate. I do not believe Apple has officially addressed this, but the fanbois have- "the studios made them do it." BS. If Amazon can do it, so could Apple if they wanted (I seem to recall something about them being the largest online music retailer- that is not without its clout).
Then, lets see... no user replacable battery in the iPhone, not allowing ANY user apps on iPhone (until FORCED to!), tyeing the Phone to one carrier, limited roll-out, denying warranty work if you jailbreak, promising tones of upgrades to the iphone when in almost a year, there has hardly been a significant upgrade at all... and who can forget the extremely customer-friendly 200 dollar price cut on the iPhone. All around, the iPhone has just been one giant way for Apple to impose its will over users.
Some of the smarter fanbois have quipped in this thread that Apple has done nothing that MS or Adobe hasn't done prior to this. You have hit the nail on the head bois, now you just have to realize it- Apple has now lowered themselves to Microsoft's level. They have abused user trust. They have put profits before their base. Apple have lowered themselves to Microsoft's level.
Bottom line- Apple has gone from putting the customers first, to putting profits first (as even admitted to by some fanbois in this thread). Customers are now a concern for after Apple has banked another billion in it's account. That's fine- it's Apple's business to run as they see fit. But the fanboi base better wake up. This is not the 1990's Apple anymore. Woz ain't working at Apple anymore. The Woz "attitude" has long since left Infinite Circle. And you fanbois need to stop pretending it is. Apple is a Corporation, and t is run by Jobs and the bean counters. Camelot is over.
Ultimately, you are right- unchecking a little box is a small thing, until you look at it in context, and see what it is a sign of. It simply means that Apple is becoming more like Microsoft every day.