Your several post rant stream notwithstanding, this is simply not true. Most notebooks are indeed tight on space because the mainboard is less than half the depth of the notebook. The eee avoids this by removing the hard drive and optical drive, and switching the battery to a piggyback unit. Its mainboard is a typical size for a notebook.That "advantage" being bugger all, given that basically no laptops are stretched for space in that direction, since it's essentially dictated by the size of the screen.
It is not. By the same token, mini USB is "irrelevant" because it too is only about half the size of an already small connector. Yet, as we all know, it has allowed for USB implementation on a wide variety of compact consumer devices. If there is ever going to be an iPhone or iPod that features HD output, it will be over a connector like mDP. The size differential you cast aside is equally shortsighted. It is not as simple as squeezing ports closer together to free up space on the PCB.Except, as noted, there's no real incentive to use Mini-DP over regular DP. The only real advantage Mini-DP has - size - is basically irrelevant.
Certainly for most applications the regular connector would suffice, but there are definitely applications where it would not, and it includes many things Apple does. Having a single connector throughout the model line therefore makes the choice obvious. The displays themselves would benefit from a standard connector as well for non-Mac users, but that is obviously not a major concern for Apple displays.
There is easily enough room on that board to move the audio adapters (or combine them into a single PCB-mounted unit), move the screwhole elsewhere, and replace the Mini-DP with DP.
Like what ?
SCSI. USB. Abandoning legacy ports. Firewire. Wireless networking. DVD writers. To name a few.