Owning a product or products from a company doesn't make someone a fanboy.
Getting defensive or being snide to someone that has a qualm with the attitude or lack thereof that a company responds with to an issue DOES make someone a fanboy.
And as you said, your new phone doesn't have any reception issues. My 3GS drops to 1 bar if I hold it but I don't have dropped calls or receptions issues.
This is precisely why I haven't cancelled my order, because it may very well be a non-issue for me. As a current and prospective customer, however, I'd like to know that the company can reassure me that issues will be addressed and that my satisfaction is in fact a priority.
That is the way businesses used to be run. So yes, I'll say again, as a customer of Apple it is off putting to me to see that they respond so quickly to debunk fake e-mails, yet by comparison, have been slothful to address this reception issues that some people seem to be having. And by reception issue, I don't mean loss of bars, I mean actual call quality and calls being dropped.
So please tell me, being that I currently don't own an iPhone 4...how is that I don't really matter?