I’ve had the exact same issues with my Powerbeats Pro. I’ve never had any previous wireless headphones so I didn’t know if that was to be expected.I’ve had some obnoxious charging and connectivity issues with the AirPods pro. Theyre nowhere near as magical as everyone led me to believe.
I’d say about 1/3 of the time only one connects and I’m already out my door and gone and in order to get the 2nd earpiece working you have to put it back in the case etc.
Also about half the time i put the earpieces back in the case it shows a red light and I have to reconnect it at least 1-3 times to get it to turn white.