In what sense were these portraying the flag in a "mean-spirited" way? As long as the games aren't making the confederates out to be something they weren't, then it's just factual. Ideally they should be letting you play both sides for the sake of balance as well.
This just seems like a massive over-reaction personally, and to be frank I'm getting sick of this over-zealous political correctness (not specifically Apple); surely the test of whether something is offensive is whether or not someone is actually offended first? Of course, anything that's flagrantly created just to cause offence is another matter, but in less obvious cases it does more harm than good to try to pull content pre-emptively.
This just seems like a massive over-reaction personally, and to be frank I'm getting sick of this over-zealous political correctness (not specifically Apple); surely the test of whether something is offensive is whether or not someone is actually offended first? Of course, anything that's flagrantly created just to cause offence is another matter, but in less obvious cases it does more harm than good to try to pull content pre-emptively.