I still live in NoVA. There are national parks dedicated to many of the battles that occurred in VA (Bull Run being a prominent one). I understand removing the flag from government buildings, and other products, but removing it from products that are related to history of the civil war is an extreme move.
I lived near Springfield and I remember as a kid going to Manassas and finding a bullet. It was slightly mangled and my father wondered out loud if it had killed somebody. He did that purposively and his comment made its mark on me. I can see somebody being interested in history, or wanting to play a computer war game (chess by any other name), but there are some things in our history about which we should be ashamed. Slavery and all things connected with it are certainly one of them. Perhaps 'extreme moves' are required because some in the South want to celebrate their history without thinking about its human cost. We asked the Germans and the Japanese to renounce some parts of their history, and we should do the same.