I think its the little things that set Apple apart.
The best example is the volume slider in iOS6, as you change the direction you hold the phone - the reflection changes on the button.
While not having little things like that wouldnt hurt, it would toss them into the pile of simple and lazy like ui design everyone else.
The Podcast app suffers from this too. Bleh.
See iCal's one of my favourites. Reminders? Can't figure out what that's meant to be.
As someone who sells Apple products though? Customers reactions tend to be 'Ooooohhhh' rather than 'Ewwwwwww'
I love/ hate these looks too. I think it goes to show apple has great graphic designers on hand, but then again, it's not very creative or original. iOS and OS X don't have that the modern and creative UI that WP8 and Windows 8 have.
iCal is the only one that is outright ugly. I can't think of any other Apple app that looks particularly bad.
What drives me nuts is changing from month to month in iCal. If forces me to wait for the page to turn. Really annoying when trying to go three months down the road quickly.
So maybe I'm just old, but the elements work well for me. I can't figure out how to do anything in Windows 8 so I'm not terribly interested in what the designers responsible for that have to say.
Making things on the screen work like they do in the "real world" has always been an Apple trademark. Why all the fuss about something that helps people connect more naturally and intutively?
Is visual masturbation a bad thing?
There's always been lots of talk about this in the forums, good to see an article on it.
I've often felt Garage Band was an excellent example of these so called "skeumorphisms" done well.
It is all about BALANCE!
I like modern clean digital design, but the little cultural enrichments can also be nice and creative. The dificult part is not overdoing it, and implementing them in a way that does not inhibit functionality.
I like a lot of the design that Mattias is doing in Android now and I never thought I'd say that lol.
I also like (Formerly known as) "Metro" on the XBOX dashboard with the white gradient background. However, on Windows 8 I think it looks hideous like some preschool play toy!
BALANCE!
I think Apple does need to scale back a bit though on the skeuomorphism. But Apple does do a ton of very amazing, beautiful, fun, and creative design!