No, that's stupid. The awkward rut ceased to exist weeks ago. Besides, I still enjoy her company, even at this point in our relationship. (using that word in the literal sense)
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No, that's stupid. The awkward rut ceased to exist weeks ago. Besides, I still enjoy her company, even at this point in our relationship. (using that word in the literal sense)
Tell her you like her and ask her out on the spot in the same sentence if you like. Or you can take a breath between.
Remember to be honest and to the point. No "I like you but . . ." etc.
Just say: Hi, insert her name I would like to take you on a date insert date and time and place. On first dates surprises usually don't go down well in my experience. Be honest of your intention and do not under any circumstances let her think you are going as 'mates'. It is a date.
Contrary to popular belief girls will forgive you for just about anything. Don't believe the hype that she doesn't know how hard it is to ask someone out. She does.
Remember to be honest and to the point. No "I like you but . . ." etc.
Just say: Hi, insert her name I would like to take you on a date insert date and time and place. On first dates surprises usually don't go down well in my experience. Be honest of your intention and do not under any circumstances let her think you are going as 'mates'. It is a date.
Contrary to popular belief girls will forgive you for just about anything. Don't believe the hype that she doesn't know how hard it is to ask someone out. She does.
Yeah, so the trackstar asked her out today, and I think she rejected him. She has an odd personality. I think that she wants to show that she's strong and hides her insecurities by never letting a guy get close to her at all. For example, she was grinding with this guy at the back to school dance all night, and he got the wrong idea. She let him have it by shouting their conversation over the phone in a very crowded area. From what I've seen and heard, her strength acts as a large hindrance towards guys interested in her.
For some reason, I love that.
For some reason, I love that.
I didn't know anybody still cared.
So, I have no idea if she's taken or not and whether or not she's accepting any offers. I hear her talk about and to so many guys and it's hard to tell. I'm going to ask someone tomorrow what her status is. I haven't really talked to her face to face recently because she disappears on campus during lunch. I think I may finally have the confidence to ask her out (albeit I'll have to vomit first.)
A female friend of mine recently remarked "it's refreshing when a guy just asks you out. Most of them try a bad line or to impress me by doing something stupid first."
Sometimes the direct approach is the best.
thats what i had in mind, actually. The only problem is that she is NEVER alone, and it's not classy doing it over the telephone.
Oh FFS! Just ask to speak to her (alone) if she is in a group of friends, or call her. "classy" pffffffft, come on now, you're teenagers...without cars - There's never going to be a big element of class, unless you mean the school kind. 
Quit ***** around and just do it.
Quit ***** around and just do it.
Oh FFS! Just ask to speak to her (alone) if she is in a group of friends, or call her. "classy" pffffffft, come on now, you're teenagers...without cars - There's never going to be a big element of class, unless you mean the school kind.
Quit ***** around and just do it.
^ Thats the one.
Anyway, it's not a bit of wonder if they we're 'grinding' and she got pissed when he got the wrong idea. How is this:
an invitation for something more? What we're they doing grinding at a school dance anyway? Shouldn't that be done in the safety of a workshop? I bet they weren't even wearing safety glasses. Kids these days...
Oh FFS! Just ask to speak to her (alone) if she is in a group of friends, or call her. "classy" pffffffft, come on now, you're teenagers...without cars - There's never going to be a big element of class, unless you mean the school kind.
Quit ***** around and just do it.
You make a good point.
Markleshark said:
...and you make a silly point.
So, apparently she is with the trackstar, but I saw her dump him with great joy after school today.
Should I ask now, or later?
Put us out of our misery, please. Just ask her. Like we advised you to weeks ago.
Do it and dont put off. Just ask her its not as bad as it seams. If you make it seam hard in your mind then you wont do it and you will chicken out but if you just chill out and do it then it will be easy.
I'm no ladies man, but even I think you're giving this waaaaay too much thought. Crikey! Just get her drunk :eek: :p
I got a kick out this thread, it is funny that when the OP is older he will realize that he was just spending way too much time worrying about asking a chick out that he never really got to know her or anything about her. There is also way too much drama involved with this chick. Grinding with a guy at a school dance, she is how old? Dating and track-star and then dumping him? Too much drama indeed. High School was an odd experience.
Just remember OP that High School is four years then you never see those idiots again.
I feel for you man, Because up until today I was in the same situation. (Apperantly she got a boyfriend-last night.) It was actually my fault, I screwed it all up, but that's not the point.
All I can really tell you is, let her know that you like her, and give it two or three weeks. If there's nothing coming back, you shouldn't be chasing someone who doesn't feel the same way about you.
) It was actually my fault, I screwed it all up, but that's not the point.All I can really tell you is, let her know that you like her, and give it two or three weeks. If there's nothing coming back, you shouldn't be chasing someone who doesn't feel the same way about you.
Hey oh tell us what she said oh.... *to the tune of Snow Hey oh by th3 red hot chillie peppers..*
