My sentiments exactly.
I don't doubt the thrill that 'engagement with the car' or, 'connection with the road' allows skilled drivers who have effortlessly mastered all of this stuff - that is, those who enjoy the physical sensation of control that mastery of manual transmission allows them.
However, while I love the autonomy of motoring, I prefer comfort, ease and stress free motoring.
I'll be honest; I prefer to be driven than to drive, and - as @vrDrew as put it, anything which allows for ease and enables hassle free autonomy and independence for as long as possible wins my support and undying gratitude.
Boring, and anaemic, I'll take any day over the need for complicated concentration ……usually, when I am in transit, I am thinking of what I have to say at whatever lecture, or briefing, or presentation, I have to give; I dislike having to concentrate on the details of the road and car, too.
But I am impressed by skilled drivers, and wish them well in their enjoyment of the physical act of driving.
Very soon after starting to drive a stick, it becomes second nature, muscle memory, no real thinking needed. I am the car.