This goes with the idea that you care more about what people think than anything else. You don't have to live in a progressive city to recognize that your self-worth is greater than how you look and what you carry.
We don't all live in small towns, so these threads pigeonholing the rest of man kind with fashion styles for the boonies are really, really ridiculous.
I think you are still missing the point. I don't care because I DO carry mine around regardless of what people think. It does get me noticed. I am happy with my bag, although I am always looking for something better, more suitable for different venues.
When I posted this thread, I just added the "MANLY" thing to be catchy. Really, I want a good bag. And, picking a good bag, whether it is tennis, gun shooting, photography, tools, or a bag for a computer (all things I have need bags for this week).
Image is important...as is function. Take picking a camera bag...which is really tough, and depends on the destination. I just SOLD a backpack camera bag because it no longer suits my style of hiking to a destination and shooting. I tend to shoot along the way so the backpack was not very useful to me. But, even with my current bags, I have different bags for different types of shooting. For weddings, I roll all the gear in a suitcase, and use a belt system with bags that hang around my waste. But, it is completely different if I am going hiking and landscape photography.
Anyway, the point is that picking a computer bag (or specifically iPad), is just as complicated. Some here on this thread prefer to have their pad with more of everything else, and they don't mind the flap over. That would drive me nuts. But, that is what this thread is about, finding the right bag for each person's tastes. Not throwing insults around about self-worth. I have plenty of that, and carry a shoulder bag irregardless of the size of city. This thread is plenty useful!