All good and you are right, people are more likely to complain than praise on the internet. I speak purely from experience, mine and everyone in the household who all like the "old" silver remote better. It's just too damn small and transparent being black on dark furniture. Every time I move, I end up swiping the touch pad inadvertently which results in a skip, pause or some sub-menu appearing. In terms of simply trying to land on the app you want on the home screen, another adventure. I know all the settings and have tried them all. In terms of the masses not liking it, IDK, BUT, it has been referenced many times by the founder of MacRumors when reviewing the ATV4K and the aftermarket ones developed as an alternative to it's short comings.
And yeah, nothing is private anymore anyway, so I'm not going to dig myself a bunker and stock up on canned goods. I am sure the next time I launch Facebook I will be hit with Remote Controls as a result of this post. There is just too much good technology to miss out on if you worry incessantly about someone knowing what you searched for on YouTube.