it's just me and my wife. We don't even closed the bathroom door.
Gosh.
Children or pets are one thing, but - if you are an introvert, and have a strong sense of privacy and a huge need for some personal space, both physical and mental - closed doors are a boon. Indeed, they are a necessity to ensure sanity, and for the recovery of energy.
Actually, I have worked in some very testing and trying places, and an absolute red line for me is the knowledge that I have some private and personal space, which, in practice, means a room of my own, where I can close the door and the world is kept at bay.
I'm situation dependent on my doors. If I want privacy or quiet (say book reading while TV is on in other room) I may have a shut door.
Nope. Nope. Nope. There are some things that just shouldn't be shared. Poop is one of those things. Not only is the door always closed, but I try to go to a different area of the house.
Actually, I find if I am doing any sort of writing, - especially writing where I wish to formulate my thoughts, and give serious thought to what goes on paper - I want privacy, some quiet, and an emphatically closed door. For that matter, I loathe open plan offices.
While I am passionate about the concept of 'personal space' and 'privacy', and have a savage and almost primitive need for several hours a day to myself, the fact is, that even as a child, I seemed to have had my own place to study and read.
But what about your door?!I used to be what I call a 'light sleeper', meaning I always slept with a light on. Nowadays I'd say I'm more of a 'hard sleeper' as I always sleep.....
Outstanding description. I now picture you wearing an animal hide and holding a large bone weapon.![]()
Closed that way they can't see me getting my gun...
Under the pillow, I presume? With the safety catch - of course - on?