Quite the contrary. The are many different types of effective leaders, and Tim is in the right place. The employees that need coddling and reassurance are not necessarily less valuable than those that do not, but those are not the employees Apple is seeking to hire, or to have on staff. Apple looks to have sharp, efficient, and detail-oriented personnel in key areas of the company. Therefore, to lead such a team, you need to push them to their limits so that they can shine. I bet you that after being drilled like that in front of your peers, the next time you have to present, you'll make sure that you are perfect! Like I said it's not for everyone, but for the Apple elite, you better be ready and willing to take a beating, pick yourself up, grow and overcome. That way in the future, when you're head and shoulders above all the others in your same category, you'll be able to handle what others would deem insurmountable. Being afforded a compliment by such a leader feels like no other compliment you have ever received. Not only do they earn you self respect and the respect of those around you, you can truly say that you worked hard and succeeded where many would not be able to-- that's an incredible achievement.
Quite the contrary.
There's only one type of a douchebag "leader", the douchebag leader. He's the one who doesn't lead by example, but by expectations. He doesn't motivate, he intimidates. He doesn't reward, he ridicules.
Like Tim allegedly does - or did.
This is not a question of cuddling or reassurance, that's just bleeding heart nonsense. We're talking about a business here. If you think drilling in front of peers, pushing people to "the limit" etc. is how you motivate people in a sustainable business, well no. That's not how you do it, that way you just motivate people to leave or alternatively become "yes" men.
Steve Jobs was famous for being a douchebag to his employees. Most of the people who made the Macintosh simply quit after it was done. Their talent became unavailable for Apple.
The way you describe this magical ultimate manager is not just completely wrong, but rather naive. The methods you so praise Timmy for is infamous in other parts of the tech industry at companies such as EA. Americas worst company two years in a row. Great to know Apple is in such distinguished company.

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Apple certainly don't hire idiots; but as I said above, sometimes people need a bit of a push in order to clarify their thinking. If they're meeting with Tim, usually the person can answer his question - they either don't want to, or their thinking is too distracted and needs to be focused.
Well, that's a nice apology, and I hope that is the case. Otherwise Tim is a douchebag.
Strange though that this seems to be the norm. Not the exception, on those days when people are distracted and need to clarify their position.
Ten times. And be ridiculed in front of their peers.
Then pushed to their limits.
But you are probably right. Timmy is a swell guy.

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Yes he does.
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Have you seriously never heard about the way Jobs acted?
I have indeed, and truly no one has ever disputed that Steve Jobs was a special class of complete douchebag, bordering on sociopath. When it came to his family, his friends, his employees.
Yeah, that's not a secret.
